aerogurl87 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I mean happy in a relationship at the moment or even happily single. I'm just curious because everytime I come on this forum I see more and more bitter posts.
Knittress Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 ::shrug:: I'm mostly happy. But then I'm not one of the ones posting all over the place about my problems either. I don't like being single, and I wish I had more of a social life - but I'm too preoccupied with other stuff to work on this at the moment.
Author aerogurl87 Posted November 14, 2010 Author Posted November 14, 2010 Me! Lol, yes LisaLee I know you're very happy with your SO. I just see some pretty bitter people on here (the dating forum especially) which makes me wonder how many of them are actually happy. Knittress: Being single isn't that bad. Just think it gives you time to figure out yourself more before you complicate it with adding another person to the dynamic of your life.
Lucky555 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm not happy as I wish I could be. I have an ex that will not let me move forward just when I'm healing emotional boom he contacts me. I wish I could be stronger but he always acts so nice that It's hard to say go away and leave me alone! I still have feelings and him telling me he never saw a future with me then continuing to talk to me just hurts! I also feel stuck in my life and am trying to make lemonade out of lemons. I have not met a decent guy in awhile, My friends are all preoccupied with their lives especially with their boyfriends, people just don't connect with Me anymore it seems. However we all live far apart and money is kinda tight for everyone. However I do feel greatful for having a good family and their support. I find somethings make Me happy but I just didn't foresee myself where I am right now I wish to get a dose of good luck soon.
Yamaha Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm Happy. Got a awesome gf and a awesome relationship.
Mad Max Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm happily single. A woman does not define me or who I am.
threebyfate Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Happiness is: Changing a poopy diaper and seeing a happy little face again! (Yes, I just did that. The next one's H's. What's even more funny is that on the weekdays, he seems to wait for H. to get home to do his business. 4/5 days it's H. who gets the ultimate pleasure. Maybe it's a father/son bonding thing! )
AverageJoe Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm just curious because everytime I come on this forum I see more and more bitter posts. Hi there, would you define bitterness? I am unmarried, single implies a vacumme that needs to be filled. So, no need for that here. I love it. I have said this before but it still feels good to say it. I do what I want, where I want, with who I want, as much as I want, wherever I want. Its very liberating. I'm happily single. A woman does not define me or who I am. Quoted for truth.
Crazy Magnet Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm very happy with my SO. We have some issues like everybody but we are actively working on them, working on our communication, and generally getting along and having a blast together. Yes, couples therapy has helped us a lot.
Arabella Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm very, very happy right now. Partly because of my new relationship, but also because I've finally let go of the bitterness caused by my last ex.
tigressA Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm happy! Got past a toxic relationship and am diving into a bright and exciting future.
Titania22 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Yes I am very happy being single. And it was nice getting to have sex on friday, but I am generally happy living a very chaste existence.
USMCHokie Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm happy...but I also want to be happier...
Author aerogurl87 Posted November 14, 2010 Author Posted November 14, 2010 Hi there, would you define bitterness? I am unmarried, single implies a vacumme that needs to be filled. So, no need for that here. I love it. I have said this before but it still feels good to say it. I do what I want, where I want, with who I want, as much as I want, wherever I want. Its very liberating. Quoted for truth. No single implies you are just that, single. You're not romantically attached to anyone which is fine. But when I say bitter I mean all the posts that portray genders and other groups of people in a negative light by generalizing one group of people. Anyway it's good to see there are some happy people here on LS. Seems like it's not as rare as I was starting to believe it was.
sb129 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I am content. Happy most of the time, but life isn't perfect- thats OK though, I didn't ever expect it to be.
Woggle Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I am very happy. My marriage is great and I am at starting a new job next week working for the best boss I ever had.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm pretty happy being single. I don't have to worry about an SO like most people on here, but that does not mean I'm against being in a relationship. I guess I'm more happy waiting than being assertive or aggressive about finding someone.
skydiveaddict Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I am NOT happy, except when jumping out of airplanes. I was ok with being single for a while. But now it sucks. I don't like it, it's mostly boring, it makes me lazy, all the people in my unit are men, etc. I want to buy dinner for a pretty girl for once, rather than a crusty old Sgt. I spend my weekends alone except for skydiving (mostly men), or at guard training, like now (ALL men). I hate it, I'm sick of it. I don't want anymore of it. I wanna puke
Pyro Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 with the number of bitter threads/posts on here I find it hard to believe certain people when they say they are happy. I am very happy myself. I have a great, honest, and trusting relationship. I've never had any doubts about us because she has never given me any reason for it. I could do without the distance between us but its only temporary.
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