Lucky555 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I'm currently in the process of doing some academic things to eventuay get a decent job. I can't work but should this prevent me from getting to know people? I know plenty of girls who were unemployed, focusing on studies, and unemployed, Also getting engaged while in college! They met great guys who supported themnot in a finical way. I'm not looking to spend a ton of money or a guy to support me financially in any way. I know plenty of girls who stick by a person while they are going to school or studying to get a good career in life. I just feel like I stink at dating because I find guys that don't want to stand by me or they want to use me. I have not dated in months and I just feel like time is passing me by while I work on my career it's like I wish I had a boyfriend to go hiking with or stuff like that. Do I just stink at dating? I have not found a guy to be in a long term relationship with and it's like every day I get older and lack the spark of romance in my life. I always find an ex talking to me which goes no where! I have not contacted him at all and I like it this way. But am I thinking wrong here? Even when I had a part time job I couldn't get a decent guy! I swear they don't exist anymore . What do people have for suggestions. I understand I'm not financially set with my life but no one ever is! People will always experience set backs whether they are in a relationship or not and it's not like I'm just being lazy! Also what are your suggestions for learning how to date effectively? I feel since I have gone through so many d-bags that I don't know how to get a positive energy back in ragards to men. I just feel tired too, so I'm alone but I'm Also fed up with bs! I wish to have fun again!
daphne Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 You have to learn how to enjoy your life and have fun and add social events to it. Go out with girlfriends. Try online. Get out and meet people. Find things outside of academics that make you happy. Try a sport that involves a lot of guys. If you want to be happy, figure out what you have fun in and do it a lot. You need to develop social skills that will help you meet a lot of different people so you have options and you can see what you like. Good luck.
Author Lucky555 Posted November 14, 2010 Author Posted November 14, 2010 You have to learn how to enjoy your life and have fun and add social events to it. Go out with girlfriends. Try online. Get out and meet people. Find things outside of academics that make you happy. Try a sport that involves a lot of guys. If you want to be happy, figure out what you have fun in and do it a lot. You need to develop social skills that will help you meet a lot of different people so you have options and you can see what you like. Good luck. Good point. I do have friends but only a few close friends. I have to admit my social skills could be better. I should be doing things I love but it's hard to meet guys my college is mostly all females! I know I can't meet decent guys at bars or clubs. It's also getting colder where I live and people are not out and about as they used to be. I tried online dating but I was freaked out by my last experience with a meeting a weirdo. Do you think it's too much to reach for to think a guy would wait a couple of months for me to eventually get a good job? There are plenty of people unemployed do to the economy and virtuay don't have the money to date as it is! I just wish there were more social activities to meet new people! A lot of my friends are coupled so I'm kinds the outsider. I'm just so tired of letting time pass me by.
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