watshername Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 So bf broke up with me over 2 months ago. I now understand why and agree with it. He is very depressed and just can not do it. He is an amzing person and I know that what he did was because he was thining of me and what is best for my future. We lived together and everything was going great until around may time this year everything in his life crumbled. He'd suffered with severe depression before and I guess it just caught up again due to family problems. I tried my hardest to be there for him adn really wanted to be but his action were hurting me a lot and he knew this and realised he had to let me go. So before we broke up we had paid upfront for our flat and now he owes me ALOT of money. He has paid back a bit but not for a while and now I'm a mature student at uni and really really need the money. Thing is. He doesn't have any...he is on JSA and housing benefit and is really struggling. I dont want to push him but im getting really low on my loan now and its causing me real anxiety. I don't know what the best thing to do is. I still love him so much and care about his well being so i dont want to upset him more by pressing him for something he cant d anything about but at the same time I wont be able to afford rent if i dont get anything soon. What is your advice?
dreamingoftigers Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Get a payment plan from him, he borrowed it and owes it back. Learn from this.
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