Might not necesarily be Chemistry...but...

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.....at least for ME....it's something else OR...is it "one in the same"?

 

Nothing turns me on more than someone that "gets me", having someone that shares your same views, same humor, etc....really, REALLY helps...esp. when, on a date, you are BOTH bouncing "Zingers" off each other.

 

With me, I really have obscure, odd sense of humor (not sick) just odd...and well, finding a woman that gets that kind of humor, may it be Monty Python-ish or whatever crappy TV show or whatever.... I get "wowed" if they "get" the reference I made to eithe TV or current event.

 

I recently had been writing short stories, and I actually had written an in-depth dialouge of a man (me) and a woman he met somewhere....it was Sci-Fi related.

 

I was so entrenched in writing the part, this was kind of a representation of the kind of conversation I would LIKE to have with woman if things are going well.

 

SO yeah, when I see in a woman's profile, the cliche'd "There MUST be Chemistry...or you just can't have anything!!"

 

I tend to blow that off....but does it depend on the person?

 

Like sometimes, I FEEL that you probably would have to go out with someone more than one time to see if you "feel it", because there's that "getting used to it" factor.

 

Or, sometimes RIGHT off the bat...maybe not the first minute, but maybe the first half-hour or hour of getting ot know them you really do hit it off?

 

I guess when people say, "You can't explain it"...I think I'm getting it now...you really CAN'T explain it.....in this post, just above, I think I could explain it the BEST I could though.

 

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[dreamingoftigers]

I think that chemistry may not be apparent at first, but it is necessary to sustain a relationship.