For those lamenting the lack of sex - Be careful what you wish for

[TinaniT]

For me, optimal is once or twice a day. Occasionally none is okay, life exists.

 

Three times a day? Maybe on vacation. Not when there's kids about. Couldn't sneak away that much!

 

I could masturbate more than I could have sex; sex will get me more sore (Sorry for the TMI) - I wonder if that woman, not having her needs met, is looking at how often she masturbates, not how often she really would want sex on an ongoing basis.

 

The more sex I have, the more I want. If I go a while without sex, my drive kinda turns itself mostly off. Happened with my ex who had a drive as high as mine but only wanted blowjobs, every time. Never sex. Eventually he got angry because he said I never seemed to enjoy giving blowjobs anymore... well yeah, you try 5-10 times a week on and on with no appreciation and no sex to meet your own needs. Gah, what an ass he was.

 

ETA: I saw some ages. I'm in my late 20's.

[Yvelysse]

I turned on Sirius Playboy Radio Advisor for literally 1 minute yesterday and a 46 yo recently divorced female called to say her boyfriend can't keep up with her and she doesn't feel wanted (or something to that affect)...... She then goes on to say she wants it 3X's a DAY!!!!!! Yes she may have rediscovered her libido, but she could kill a guy with that appetite:D;).....

 

Without skipping a beat the male (on the radio) suggested that it may be asking a lot of a male as much as he may want sex to keep up that schedule and politely/subtly suggested to buy a vibrator, name it and use it 5X's out of 6, suggesting fairly that once every 2 days should be enough for a normal male......

 

Funny thing is I did not hear gasps from the women on the show.....

 

Note I also posted this on the Sexual practices board, but thought it may be worth posting here too....

 

This is my case with my FwB. I'm near my sexual peak and he's petered OUT!

I want more, I vibe too. . . 0.0 so why can I get what I need when He asked me for the FwB to begin with. It's all about him...

 

I have a friend who will draw me a nude of myself but I have to email him the pics. I Just asked my FwB to take the pics for me... no sex... just pics. No he can't do that ... WTF?

 

'Finding your libido' as a woman is vastly different than for a guy. It's comes when we no longer need to feed that biological clock. It's is awesome when we get to dance the vertical lambada when all our responsibilities are all like ducks in a row.

[dreamingoftigers]

For me, optimal is once or twice a day. Occasionally none is okay, life exists.

 

Three times a day? Maybe on vacation. Not when there's kids about. Couldn't sneak away that much!

 

I could masturbate more than I could have sex; sex will get me more sore (Sorry for the TMI) - I wonder if that woman, not having her needs met, is looking at how often she masturbates, not how often she really would want sex on an ongoing basis.

 

The more sex I have, the more I want. If I go a while without sex, my drive kinda turns itself mostly off. Happened with my ex who had a drive as high as mine but only wanted blowjobs, every time. Never sex. Eventually he got angry because he said I never seemed to enjoy giving blowjobs anymore... well yeah, you try 5-10 times a week on and on with no appreciation and no sex to meet your own needs. Gah, what an ass he was.

 

ETA: I saw some ages. I'm in my late 20's.

 

Blah, I hear you!