Dante311 Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 Why is she contacting me 10 months later like this after breaking my heart and wanting nothing to do with me any more... to wanting to make amends and friends when we weren't even friends to begin with... I feellike I should see if she is curious too?
NorthBound Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 Why is she contacting me 10 months later like this after breaking my heart and wanting nothing to do with me any more... to wanting to make amends and friends when we weren't even friends to begin with... I feellike I should see if she is curious too? As a guy that's been in a similar position, I highly suggest to stop talking to her immediatley and try to distract your thoughts with good things. Whatever reason she is contacting you, I assure you it's for a selfish benefit. Either it's an ego trip to make sure she still has you in her pocket... She is currently not dating anyone or has been dumped which is similar... Or she has just now came to think about or understand how bad she hurt you, even then she is probably making sure you're okay so she can keep moving and not feel the guilt. Don't let her come back into your life out of nowhere and suddenly have control over your emotions... Believe me, it would be amazing if she actually wanted to re-connect in a healthy way but 99% of the time it's just not the case and will hurt you tremendously if you succumb. Hope things work out, sorry to hear.
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