hkj887 Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 My boyfriend and I recently broke up and it just finally hit me. You know the knots in your stomach, fast heart beat, I want to cry hit me? See, I always thought we'd get back together and have a second chance and although that isn't far from possible, it finally hit me that that's no guarantee and to avoid disappointment the best thing for me to do is move on, but how? How do you move on when you're so used to the person being around? How do you move on when you still want to be with them? and How do you move on when you feel like the break up is your fault? We had a great relationship for some time and when things were good they were GOOD! Problem was he wanted me to open up and tell him when something was bothering me, but the moment I did he felt as if I wasn't happy and was complaining which was FAR from the truth! He started to withdraw and instead of giving him that space, I pushed more and became an emotional wreck, wanting to talk all the time about our issues and trying to show him I care and trying to fix everything, but all that did was make it worse and now we're here! It sucks because it hurts, he was a great guy and we could've been so much more but it all fell apart and I feel responsible as well as hurt and it doesn't help that I think he sometimes regrets our relationship. How do I move on from this? Please help!
skydiveaddict Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 You move on by doing just that. Cut all your contact with him. Make sure that's what you want. Cause it hurts a lot, and it might hurt worse before you heal. But sometimes it's the only solution. I wish you well
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