Titania22 Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 Hey Guys, I just checked OKCupid and I had this message in my inbox, from a 19yr old. "I hate to do this but I may have to report your picture for being too damn sexy." What would you girls think if you received such a message? Guys feel free to throw in your 2cents worth too.
Feelin Frisky Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 Hey Guys, I just checked OKCupid and I had this message in my inbox, from a 19yr old. "I hate to do this but I may have to report your picture for being too damn sexy." What would you girls think if you received such a message? Guys feel free to throw in your 2cents worth too. He's buzzing your lotus blossom.
counterman Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 Cute:p Did you respond or are you gonna?
reservoirdog1 Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 If nothing else, I'll give him full marks for originality and balls.
runner Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 nice. respond with something along the lines of, "pssh, that's nothing; i haven't even got started yet."
Author Titania22 Posted November 13, 2010 Author Posted November 13, 2010 He's buzzing your lotus blossom. Cute:p Did you respond or are you gonna? I haven't responded yet, have been out since I posted this. Am not sure yet. He lives a long way a way, and whilst I do want to give him props for his guts, I don't want to set him up for rejection either. Personally I don't have petrol money and time for the travelling that would be involved. If nothing else, I'll give him full marks for originality and balls. Cool nice. respond with something along the lines of, "pssh, that's nothing; i haven't even got started yet." Yeah, considering that's my best photo up already, I don't have anything to follow up with. I am not about to take sexy photos of myself like the ones posted of the Curvy Women thread. I just don't roll that way.
Author Titania22 Posted November 13, 2010 Author Posted November 13, 2010 I responded to him, here is what I wrote. In his profile, instead of filling it out normally, he wrote a really creative romance story. Thankyou for your attention. I like your confidence, and I read your profile. It is really well written, you have a real talent for creative writing. Unfortunately I feel you live too far away from me to have anything other then an online friendship. I would love to know more about you and correspond with you further, but the distance between us is impractical for anything more. I am sorry, and I hope you find someone more available for romance. P.S. Don't Change! You are awesome. What do you think? As I wrote in my previous post, I wanted to give him props, but not get his hopes up. Do you think this response succeeds in doing this?
Author Titania22 Posted November 13, 2010 Author Posted November 13, 2010 One sentence, from someone you never met, and you already know he's confident? This is what guys keep saying when women throw the confidence label around so easily. How do you know he's confident? What makes you think he's confident? Now you have this made-up persona of this guy in your head. Probably one that he could never live up to if you two were to meet. He would say one little thing out of sync and your bubble would pop, bringing you crashing back to reality. Why is it so hard for women to understand what we as guys are trying to explain about this? This is what guys mean when they talk about women having that dreamy, mindset, its like they get stuck in a trance, and they see the guy in a different light, instead of reality. Almost the way a victim sees their rescuer, they have this false sense, that the person is bigger than life. Just because he called you sexy you label him as confident? I'm not bashing you or the situation, I'm just pointing out how from a guys point of view, we don't see how you make these assumptions. Hey I was letting him down. There is nothing wrong with saying something nice to someone and with them a lift. Yes, he's a stranger and I don't know him. But I live by the idea that people will live up or down to the expectations of others. Sometimes people need soneone else to see something in them, before they can see it in themselves. I costs me nothing to send a kind uplifting message to someone, and that message may just be the thing they needed to hear to have the guts to be the person they want to be. And as for whether it works, I have seen it in people. They will respond to negative negatively, and positive positively. If he was confident and knew it already, it will be validation of what he already knows. And if he doesn't seen himself as confident, then maybe I have set the spark in his mind, that will change how he sees himself.
Cee Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 Thankyou for your attention. I like your confidence, and I read your profile. It is really well written, you have a real talent for creative writing. Unfortunately I feel you live too far away from me to have anything other then an online friendship. I would love to know more about you and correspond with you further, but the distance between us is impractical for anything more. I am sorry, and I hope you find someone more available for romance. P.S. Don't Change! You are awesome. If you meant everything you wrote and were honest that distance is the main factor, then I think this is a wonderful message. It was thoughtful and very well written. Clearly, you spent some time in crafting your response. I think it's great you put positive energy out there on OK Cupid. I hope it comes back to you 10-fold.
Author Titania22 Posted November 13, 2010 Author Posted November 13, 2010 If you meant everything you wrote and were honest that distance is the main factor, then I think this is a wonderful message. It was thoughtful and very well written. Clearly, you spent some time in crafting your response. I think it's great you put positive energy out there on OK Cupid. I hope it comes back to you 10-fold. Thanks Cee, I mean everything I do all the time, and yes everything does come back so much. I was actually moved to tears of joy this morning because of how blessed my life is. And how great it is that I am on my path and doing what I need to be doing, which is spreading wisdom, positivity and unconditional love to everyone that crosses my path, IRL and online. It probably sounds like a quaint notion to most people, but I am living proof, that all good intention is always repaid without exception. (Note: the repayment doesn't come from where you think, it will always be a surprise)
112233 Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 .... sexy photos of myself like the ones posted of the Curvy Women thread. I just don't roll that way. I laughed when you said rolled in the same paragraph as "curvy women" ....
Author Titania22 Posted November 13, 2010 Author Posted November 13, 2010 I laughed when you said rolled in the same paragraph as "curvy women" .... lol, That was subconscious:laugh:
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