nowwhatnow Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 do you think that after a enough time has passed, say 8 -12 months, the dumpee can ask for a second chance and have it seriously considered and not look desperate because so much time has passed? or is it always up to the dumper to initiate?
Jayerjay Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 I think enough time would have passed that you can initiate contact, but get a feel for them and start a friendship before asking for a second chance (i.e. their relationship status, how they feel about you, etc). After casually hanging out for a while if you get a good vibe then go for it. Just don't go into it expecting too much or you may get your heart broken.
GorillaTheater Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 do you think that after a enough time has passed, say 8 -12 months, the dumpee can ask for a second chance Depends. Second chance for what? What was the initial screw-up? And what specifically was the other person's response?
alwayshoping Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 I think its a "play it by ear" sort of thing. Although its always better when the dumper asks.
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