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Do you ever feel guilty after getting mad at someone?


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I went off at a guy by texts and facebook messages who is now an ex-friend. I know, sort of impersonal and being crazy. He betrayed my trust by abusing my credit card. I don't care anymore now that he hasn't replied to any of my messages. Told him I was breaking up with him though we were never dating, just FWB. He didn't say anything then either.

 

I may of made of mistake by telling one of his siblings what he was doing with my card and was giving him money. I also get the gut feeling that he's lying about stuff though I can't prove it. We used to be really tight-knit, hanging out together a lot for a couple years then things fell through between him and ex-finance. That's how I met him, through his ex. Since that happened, our visits were very brief and infrequent. And we weren't hanging out together anymore on the weekends in the evening.

 

Our friendship got complicated, sex being one of the factors and our friendship wasn't the same after a couple years we started hanging out together. So, I've decided to end it and move on now. Its hard, I really liked him.

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Our friendship got complicated, sex being one of the factors and our friendship wasn't the same after a couple years we started hanging out together. So, I've decided to end it and move on now. Its hard, I really liked him.

 

Why is it that FWB relationships seem to be getting crazy popular... yet always seem to end in disaster?

 

You should not waste your time going off on the guy. If he used your credit card in an unauthorized way you should be contacting the police and your credit card company.

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I used to, now I control my temper. Probably the two are connected, no one likes to be ashamed of themselves.

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I was drunk when posting that

 

Sympathies.

 

Well, you won't be living high on the hog if this ex FWB has maxed out your credit card. Even if the police won't do anything, you could certainly think about recovering the money he spent via the small claims court. Have you had the bill yet?

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Not if they deserve it.

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I don't get angry at people too often; I'm more prone to get angry at situations, be it traffic or whatever. When I'm angry at people, I don't generally feel guilty about it since, to me at least, my anger is generally justified. How I express my anger, however, has caused me some regrets from time to time.

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