nyr81 Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 So I've just starting dating these two women. I really enjoy spending time with both of them. When would you say I have to make a choice between the two? After a certain number of dates? I almost fear making the wrong choice. Which means I almost feel I need to spend significant time with each to make the right choice. Is this dishonest? Thoughts...
that girl Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 There is nothing wrong with casually seeing two women as long as you: 1) do not act like a boyfriend and 2) answer honestly if she asks or implies that you are exclusive Sex makes things a little trickier, if you have sex in the first few dates, you're in the clear. But if she goes on a whole bunch of dates before sleeping with you, she may think you're exclusive.
Author nyr81 Posted November 12, 2010 Author Posted November 12, 2010 I mean is having sex with both girls being dishonest? I'm not a player by any stretch of the imagination. I would really like to build something longterm.
that girl Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 If you're sleeping with both girls, you are very unlikely to build anything long term. You won't be giving either relationship a real chance. We only have so much attention in life. But that doesn't mean it is dishonest, it really depends on where things stand with the other three.
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