I just realized that the longest I've ever gone without sex is three weeks...

[northern_sky]

You are the perfect example of the women I can't stand... have zero respect for... and quite literally am replused by.

 

I suggest some intense counseling or atleast an evaluation. The longer you try to replace happiness, self-worth, and especially love with sex the more F**ked up you're going to get.

 

The only men that are interested in you are the ones looking for meaningless sex... they can read you like a book lol.

 

Wow, what's your problem?

 

Like what have I said or done that makes me so despicable?

[Star Gazer]

All these guys you sleep with... I have noticed that you view them in almost a fairytale like capacity when you first meet them, and even when things end when you're mourning the loss of what you thought you had. That's normal.

 

What isn't normal is how you'll find ways to still praise them in light of the hindsight knowledge that these dudes weren't worthy of what you gave them. It's like you want your bad decisions in the past (to sleep with them so soon and pine for them thereafter) to be validated, but when he decides to cut and run, you want it to be all "his" fault that things didn't work out in the end each time... Which obviously isn't the case.

 

Anyway...

 

You acknowledge odd factual symptoms of a VERY serious, deep rooted emotional pathology (not going longer than 3 weeks without sex, particularly outside of relationships, is very troubling), and yet you almost become hysterically angry and lash out when someone points out WHY you may be doing what you're doing. What's the point of discussing WHAT you do if you're unwilling to discuss WHY and possibly change that part of yourself??

[Akherousia]

Wow, what's your problem?

 

Like what have I said or done that makes me so despicable?

 

The fact that you are debasing every guy(or most of them) you've gone out with, dated, or had casual sex with(if you ever had such a thing, I don't know).

 

I wouldn't like to one day find out that the guy I was with actually thought I was repulsive. Don't you think that with so many people having romantic problems and with this forum being so famous, one of your ex boyfriends is going to find this forum?

 

Maybe they'll start reading your threads and for some reason think to themselves "I think I know this girl."

 

Maybe they'll search your other posts and find more and more reasons to think that you are the girl they think you are... and when they read how much you are so put off by them, well.

 

Another person damaged.

Edited November 12, 2010 by Akherousia

[Knittress]

A lot of this sex was subpar, like eating junk food.

 

 

 

Yeah but unlike junk food subpar sex doesn't go to your thighs.

 

Oh. COME ON, people. Someone has got to make a punchline for this.

I KNOW you're thinking that I'm thinking... o.O