studiomuffin Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 Last weekend, i got her number and snogged her in a club and we seemed to click, sadly i had to leave since i had work at 8am the next morning so i couldn't go over 2am. Right, I did a high schoolish move and asked some of her friends, one of them being my work colleage who i met up before i met her and the other i knew and met the girl threw her. From my work colleage i got told shes very sensitive, lovely, shy and is very close to her friends. From my friend, i didn't get much other than shes single. Now after that night i haven't been able to hang out with her since so its almost been a week but i have tried to keep in contact a bit so i don't fade from her memory. Monday, I gave her a few texts to see how she was, She remembered me, i asked her out but she didn't have any money and wasn't sure so i said another time. Thursday, I gave her another text to ask if she wants to meet up tomorrow night for a few drinks and i'm gonna pay for it ( last time i didn't offer to pay rookie mistake). I also added her on Facebook which she accepted. Orignally i called her since i wanted to do it so she could remember my voice but no answer so i sent a text and got one back an hour later. She said "Hey yeah sorry, um, yeah maybe, I'll let know. (: X" and i replied "Np No rush X." to seem less pushy. Now I've been trying to work out an answer why she didn't give me a real answer then or even that night. At first i though she was nervous because one she didn't call back and didn't give a definite answer. I also though maybe shes just being polite but usually if a women isn't interested she won't use X at the end or reply back for that matter. I can also imagine shes just teasing but since shes a virgin from what i've been told, i think it was more due to being shy. I was also on facebook most of the night since its my day off so she had to the option to talk to me. I'm thinking if i don't get any response from 6-7pm tomorrow night then i will give her a text to get an answer and if no response then i will take the hint. The problem is i like her allot and her innocence it something i'm really attracted to. With the frustration i've been working out allot at the gym and having a hard time sleeping. Any advice would be appreciated
veggirl Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 She can't be that shy if she is making out with strangers. I'm not sure why you think she is so innocent? Also: being a virgin doesn't automatically make someone shy, lol In seriousness, though, you flatly asked her out and she did not say yes. I don't think she is interested, I'm sorry. I would wait to see if she contacts you. You have asked her out twice and she has not accepted.
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