Lucky555 Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 All of my exes I have no contact with except this one guy who wont go away. I admitted here I contacted him because of a friend and I swore not to contact him again. Well he has contacted me and he has been flirting with me. I answered because its like i didn't want him to think i am ignoring him. But really what should i care. I have always wanted to keep peace with breakups but this time I swear I felt myself being sucked back into him trying to play me again. So i just gave him an "attitude" and he told me to stop. Then i figured that was it. He messages me online, then he was commenting on my stuff online. He knows i check my stuff. What can I do for myself to stop feeling like I have to keep the peace? Why do i care!!!!!!!! I shouldn't care he just messes my mind up all over again. He has no plans to ever make any sort of commitment to me its like he uses me to suck the energy out of me. I have blocked him online once again because i thought he was done contacting me and I was back to going no contact. Such a vicious cycle also some of his comments were like him wanting me to compliment him i could sense he was psychologically manipulating me. I just gave him cocky responses. I just feel like i want a peaceful life and i can't live my life with someone like this intruding. I don't stay friends with my exes so we can both move on. I find myself knowing a different side of him that I have never knew before too it like he was faking being someone he was not. Anyways I'm not really sad I'm just irritated that I can't shake this energy sucking leech off yet. I'm getting stronger but its like i should be using my brain and I guess because i cared for him at one point its just harder to ignore him. I think the way to go now is ignore no matter what...I just have to be stronger. No more caving. I bet there are plenty of people who can relate just i need to get some strength to REMIND myself to ignore in order to get rid of him completely. I am happy when i don't have contact with exes i feel baggage free.
Cratsky Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 have you thrown away all the items that remind you of him? packed them away etc? have you torn up the pictures etc of the two of you? Seriously, start focusing on your future. Remember, you're giving away your power whenever you think about him etc. You're not a victim, you're winner. Walking away from him leaves you open to explore new possibilities in life so focus on that feeling of excitement about what the future can bring.
Am4Real Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 All of my exes I have no contact with except this one guy who wont go away. I admitted here I contacted him because of a friend and I swore not to contact him again. Well he has contacted me and he has been flirting with me. Lucky, What's the story with your friend having you contact your EX? Something is not making sense to me? Do you still have feelings? Did you confess these feeling to your friend, hence the push to contact your EX?
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