IceIceBaby Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 (edited) So are there really guys out there who would date a girl long term when he really sees no future with her? If so, are there any signs that a girl could look out for? I've heard stories about girls who were with a guy for months or even years and the guy had no intention of really being with her. Is it possible for a guy to see a girl multiple times a week, spend a couple nights a week with her, let her spend time with his family and friends, call every day, basically spend all his free time with her and treat her like a girlfriend...but in his mind know theres no future? Again I ask the question...are there any signs for a girl to see? Or is she just screwed because the guy will tell her she means more and is a good liar? Are there any guys here who have done this before? Edited November 12, 2010 by IceIceBaby
Sabali Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 Are there any guys out there like this? You're looking at his typed words. I treat everyone I date very well. I will even be exclusive for as long as the relationship last but I won't marry anyone. You don't have to look for any signs. Just ask me and I will tell you that I have no desire to marry. I will tell anyone I date this upfront if they ask about it. Some think that they will somehow change my mind and get frustrated with me because my stance has not changed after so much time has went past. Sure. Spend a night at my house. I will make you breakfast when you wake up in the morning. We can hump all night long. I will open up the car door for you, pull out your chair, wine and dine you, and tell you how great you look in that dress, spend time with, take you on great dates but I am not putting a ring on anyone's finger or putting half on anyone's baby. All you have to do is ask.
Author IceIceBaby Posted November 12, 2010 Author Posted November 12, 2010 Sabali - So you don't want to get married period. But what about guys who want to get married but still stay in what looks like a relationship with a girl for a long period of time? A girl who might just be good for now.
Sabali Posted November 12, 2010 Posted November 12, 2010 (edited) Sabali - So you don't want to get married period. But what about guys who want to get married but still stay in what looks like a relationship with a girl for a long period of time? A girl who might just be good for now. Well, it's dating. Not everyone dates a person with thoughts of marrying them. There are people that are all along the same spectrum that I am on. Some just want to be in a relationship for now but don't even want to think about marriage at a certain stage for now. When I was training for my career, there were many guys who were in relationships with no intentions of marrying the person or being long term with them. They almost expected the relationship to end once things got really rough but they still seem like nice happy couples. Yeah, this stuff is not a secret, really, and I am certainly not the only guy that I know that rolls like this. Very common thing with dating. The person I am dating now feels similar as far as I can tell and we are just really enjoying each other's company. Edited November 12, 2010 by Sabali
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