When you're not the jealous type but find yourself obsessing over everything..

[Hopeful30]

Well, not exactly.

 

What I mean is that, why do some of us find ourselves absolutely normal in all relationships, and then there is ONE that comes along, and we tend to focus ridiculously on small details that are irrelevant? We over-think, over-analyse and half the time end up making fools out of ourselves.

[lenny]

I totally know what you mean! I am there myself right now. And this guy's actions and words only prove he is very into me. He's given me zero reason to feel insecure, yet I am.

[Hopeful30]

I totally know what you mean! I am there myself right now. And this guy's actions and words only prove he is very into me. He's given me zero reason to feel insecure, yet I am.

 

I think it has something to do with finding something good, and becoming so scared of losing it?

[lenny]

Well there's a thought. I have been actively working at loosening up because however long this lasts (hopefully forever) I want to enjoy it and quit spending my time over analyzing everything. It's much easier said than done though.

 

We've been together for a few months now and he spends just about every night over. I think things are moving out of the honeymoon stage because they are very much less hot and lovey and now while quite comfortable and still hot, a little boring. That's my current stress. I'm fine with where we are but worried he's going to get bored with me.

 

Why do we do these things to ourselves!