True2form Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I was seeing a guy over new year's but it fizzled due to distance. He lit up my life and I was very interested in him. I tried to hold out for him for six months before I moved home but at the last hurdle I fell and got a new bf... but then found out a month later, he had a gf who he'd been with for four months - glad I didn't wait! (this was in August) We are however still friends as I never once pushed, pulled or got emotional to his face about our situation. But now it's November and I don't get it. His correspondance with me is sporadic at best but it always has some weird edge to it. Today's gem was "I'm listening to weepy music... it's weird how it gets you thinking about all the deep stuff you shouldn't be thinking about.... Oop, now some country music has come on!" - ????? When I see him in person, he does NOT stop talking and it's a constant comedy show, even with his gf there and my bf there, he just seems to lay on the jokes, and even get a bit personal with my bf - nothing offensive and my bf is really easy going; but he's borderline flirtatious with him - I see it as some strange male dominance test. It's all a bit too much, I don't know where I stand with him and it's getting to the point where I WILL have an emotional outburst and demand an answer, which I will get but at the price of mine and his friendship. Please tell me he's just being friendly and that my residue feelings for him are blocking my perception of his actual behaviour. I need to move on, I risk a lot on this.
Hhhh Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 the closeness with your new bf is most likely male dominance after all he stole his lady, but he could be doing it without knowing it The texts i have no clue wtf they are about
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