jessysea Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 He says he does not want to live with me, and needs space, but wants to work things out. We have both been some what unfaithful to each other. We have been together 8 years. He has been sending me mixed signals the whole time through this most recent situation. I moved out in August, when I found out he had a "freind". He has since told me that in his mind the relationship with the other girl is over. But from what I make of it she keeps showing up. We tried no contact. He contacted me after a week. I did not answer to the first three days that he tried to contact me. He says he does not want to stop contact with me. He tells me there our problems with the relationship, but he says he needs to work on himself. My question is do we still have a chance?? I would like to works things out and he seems to also. But I still sense a distance in the relationship. We have only been out together once in the last month. We keep in contact via text and phone calls. We are meeting today. I don't want to push him away, but I dont know how to do things right..?.I also don't know what to do about the other girl situation..?.
lapse Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 Could you tell him that you are not at all interested as long as the other girl is in the picture in any capacity? And if there is any question in his mind about his feelings for her or whether he is interested in other people, I think you should encourage him to explore those *without you*. I'd just lay it down - talk to him and if he starts initiating conversations about working it out, explain that you are only interested if he's certain that it's what he wants to do and he will give it 100%. Otherwise, he's not ready and there's nothing you can do about that. Just my thoughts on it. Do try to have a good time!
wicar1 Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 We have both been some what unfaithful to each other. This says it all you two are not supposed to be together. It is better that you two end this. Good luck
TaraMaiden Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 PMs don't work for new members. looks like good old fashioned mud wrestling, gals! I'd sell tickets if I were you - but don't bitch on forum. very undignified.
PowerOfOne Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I'd sell tickets if I were you - but don't bitch on forum. very undignified. Naw, you scared them off TM. I had popcorn and a great spot picked out.
homebrew Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 Naw, you scared them off TM. I had popcorn and a great spot picked out. ^^^^^^ Now that is funny! ^^^^^^^ Now onto different note... Help me understand this... This guy was obviously lying and cheating on these two women... Now he has each of them coming out in his defense and willing to fight each other for the sake of his honor? Fascinating!
Don_da_Ho Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 Oh where oh where did our Jessy go, oh where oh where?
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