Dante311 Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I realized last night... around 2AM when I was out that I am not emotionally healthy. How do I know this? Well for one - I have a stage 5 clinger who won't take no as an answer, but I refuse to give in. She's older. It's just been interesting is all... I've been seeing this one girl who is dating someone else too... well her other guy isn't too fond of her seeing me... I just don't care, but I'm ending it with her probably today... and a woman she works with is head over heels for me and learned I wasn't into her last night through this girl (when I wanted to tell her instead) and now hates my life. A girl from my department I was into and I were speaking... harmless flirting. I learned she lied to me about kissing when I asked her if she likes when guys ask her for head (b/c she loves giving it she told me)... her response? Only when she's already in bed with the guy. I look at her and go, well that sucks b/c you don't kiss or have sex... and she blurts in she does kiss, but only in bed... I think, 'wait'... you were in bed with me but wouldn't kiss? yet you want me? wtf? I said good night - we don't talk anymore. To top it off... as much as I hate Nicole for doing what she did to me... I hate her with all my heart... I miss and love her still... 10 months later I will never be well emotionally at this rate. ugh. I meet the wrong type of woman.
alwayshoping Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I realized last night... around 2AM when I was out that I am not emotionally healthy. How do I know this? Well for one - I have a stage 5 clinger who won't take no as an answer, but I refuse to give in. She's older. It's just been interesting is all... I've been seeing this one girl who is dating someone else too... well her other guy isn't too fond of her seeing me... I just don't care, but I'm ending it with her probably today... and a woman she works with is head over heels for me and learned I wasn't into her last night through this girl (when I wanted to tell her instead) and now hates my life. A girl from my department I was into and I were speaking... harmless flirting. I learned she lied to me about kissing when I asked her if she likes when guys ask her for head (b/c she loves giving it she told me)... her response? Only when she's already in bed with the guy. I look at her and go, well that sucks b/c you don't kiss or have sex... and she blurts in she does kiss, but only in bed... I think, 'wait'... you were in bed with me but wouldn't kiss? yet you want me? wtf? I said good night - we don't talk anymore. To top it off... as much as I hate Nicole for doing what she did to me... I hate her with all my heart... I miss and love her still... 10 months later I will never be well emotionally at this rate. ugh. I meet the wrong type of woman. You and me both. I have stories that would make these women look sane! just try not to rush it! Its the rushing it that makes you get with these crazy girls. First red flag then walk away!
sally4sara Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 My husband says when looking for someone to date/have a relationship with, you get three things to choose from. Attractive, intelligent, and crazy. You can only choose two of those three so make up your mind about which two are the best for you. P.S. that Intelligent/Crazy combo sounds like a scary one doesn't it?
YellowShark Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 ...that Intelligent/Crazy combo sounds like a scary one doesn't it?Beauty is only skin deep... but crazy is forever. That's the yardstick I live by.
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