Mmissy16 Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and about 4 months. He's a really great guy, and I'm completely in love with him. He lives about an hour away from me. Distance, I'd say, is our only problem. He doesn't have a job and his parents give him enough money to go to school and back. He hangs out with his friends, but I'm assuming this is because they live close to him. Anyways, he comes down and visits me maybe every 2 weeks, sometimes once a month. I've never been okay with this but I've never made a big deal about it. For the past few days, I've been crying and feeling myself slowly going crazy. I need to see him more, and I don't know what to do. I don't have my driver's license yet, so I can't go visit him. I tried talking to him about it tonight, and he told me he'll just talk to me tomorrow. I find it very heartbreaking that he didn't pay any attention to the way I was feeling. I'm calling it an emotional crisis. I could sure use your advice!
Cracker Jack Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 How old are you guys? Well, at least you tried to bring it up. Next time you talk to him, just tell him how you feel. He needs to know it's hurting you.
Titania22 Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and about 4 months. He's a really great guy, and I'm completely in love with him. He lives about an hour away from me. Distance, I'd say, is our only problem. He doesn't have a job and his parents give him enough money to go to school and back. He hangs out with his friends, but I'm assuming this is because they live close to him. Anyways, he comes down and visits me maybe every 2 weeks, sometimes once a month. I've never been okay with this but I've never made a big deal about it. For the past few days, I've been crying and feeling myself slowly going crazy. I need to see him more, and I don't know what to do. I don't have my driver's license yet, so I can't go visit him. I tried talking to him about it tonight, and he told me he'll just talk to me tomorrow. I find it very heartbreaking that he didn't pay any attention to the way I was feeling. I'm calling it an emotional crisis. I could sure use your advice! Please don't worry about it, wait a week and see if you still feel crazy, because everyones been feeling crazy the last few days, and you don't want to make a rash decision at a like this. If you don't believe me, look around you, notice what's going on with other people, and I am sure you will find there are lots of strong emotions and people feeling challenged.
Author Mmissy16 Posted November 11, 2010 Author Posted November 11, 2010 How old are you guys? Well, at least you tried to bring it up. Next time you talk to him, just tell him how you feel. He needs to know it's hurting you. I'm 18 and he's 20.
Author Mmissy16 Posted November 11, 2010 Author Posted November 11, 2010 Please don't worry about it, wait a week and see if you still feel crazy, because everyones been feeling crazy the last few days, and you don't want to make a rash decision at a like this. If you don't believe me, look around you, notice what's going on with other people, and I am sure you will find there are lots of strong emotions and people feeling challenged. I would never think of breaking up with him over something as little as distance. But it's very hard for me and I feel that I need more attention than he's giving me. He's my first boyfriend.
Titania22 Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I would never think of breaking up with him over something as little as distance. But it's very hard for me and I feel that I need more attention than he's giving me. He's my first boyfriend. Are you in a position to skype with each other?
Author Mmissy16 Posted November 11, 2010 Author Posted November 11, 2010 Are you in a position to skype with each other? Yes! We do it every once in a while. I've told him, he doesn't even have to come see me more than he does. I've told him that I can be satisfied with just Skype. I don't know. I feel like he doesn't like using it like I do.
Titania22 Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 Yes! We do it every once in a while. I've told him, he doesn't even have to come see me more than he does. I've told him that I can be satisfied with just Skype. I don't know. I feel like he doesn't like using it like I do. I get that, because I feel uncomfortable with cameras, but I feel that is the best option at this point.
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