loveonsleeves Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I am dating a girl for the 4 months now. And it seems she has been pulling away lately. She does have a busy schedule but I find she has been not calling or coming around lately. I started to get paranoid, and starting thinking she is cheating. I also taught hiring a private eye. But I can't afford it. Also, speaking with a friend she has a advice me not to do it.And I'm not going to hire a private eye. My friend had told me that being suspicious is in small degree is normal. And I should talk with my girlfriend about my feelings and find out how she feels about me. Feeling suspicious, is not a feeling i want to continue especially within a relationships. I think if I could talk to my girlfriend about my suspiciousness it will all go away. My biggest concern is that I'll be moving in Sept. and I would like her to come. She has express she loves me but she doesn't want to move. What do I do? I would like to place all the cards on the table, and ask her about how serious is our relationship but we do not have a lot of a lone time.
dreamingoftigers Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 Whatever you do, dont' hire a private eye for a four month dating relationship. It would be a little early to talk about moving in anyways. Whew, 1400 posts!
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