Third age Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I like two girls, ones a hot really nice, caring and good friend. The other is a hot, nice bad girl who used to be into drugs. I like them both...I asked the Bad girl out and she said she really likes me but doesnt want to date yet. So should i ask the good girl out and if i get rejected wait for the bad girl? and just not tell the bad girl i asked the good girl out?
JohnnyBlaze Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 May as well. After all, the bad girl said no, so it's not as though she has any claim on you. If you really do like her, try your luck with the good girl! If things don't work out with her, then you can always see how the bad girl responds after a time. As to telling the bad girl about asking out the good girl, don't. It's none of her business. If things work out with the good girl, should the two meet, you just introduce her as your girlfriend. But there's no reason that the bad girl needs to know that you asked the good girl out. She has no claim on you and can't reasonably expect you to wait around until/if she's ever ready. She gave up her claim the minute she said no. And saying that she doesn't want to date yet is a no. If, when she decides she's ready, you're still single, she knows where to find you. Otherwise, she may have to simply chalk you up as the one that got away.
Author Third age Posted November 11, 2010 Author Posted November 11, 2010 Thanks! Im going to try for Cassie (the good girl). But shes not someone i can just ask out. I mean were like best friends but we never see each other. Any advice on this? Thanks!
D-Jam Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 I like two girls, ones a hot really nice, caring and good friend. The other is a hot, nice bad girl who used to be into drugs. I like them both...I asked the Bad girl out and she said she really likes me but doesnt want to date yet. So should i ask the good girl out and if i get rejected wait for the bad girl? and just not tell the bad girl i asked the good girl out? Here's the rational answer based on my own experiences: BAD GIRL will bring you drama, indecisiveness, and plus that "doesn't want to date yet" sounds like the typical answer that translates to "I want to see if a bigger better deal is out there". You'll just end up alone, frustrated, and maybe on here complaining. Go for bad girl if you just want some sex and kicks. GOOD GIRL probably would be there with hot soup if you were sick, and won't play games or cause you drama. She might even have a "freeky" side when you two get intimate...thus becoming the best of both worlds. Not to mention you won't have to fight uphill battles to make things happen and yet have a girl probably other guys wish their GFs could be. Break the cycle and don't become like the bad boy chasing females we all complain and comment about. Men have to do their part in making the world better...and rejecting a good girl (when you do have attraction to her) will only tell her that she needs to be a "bad girl" to get guys. In terms of asking her out, how are things between you two? Just because you're friends doesn't mean it can't be more. If she's lovingly affectionate with you, then take her out, maybe tell her you like her a bit more than friends, and wondered if she felt the same way. If Cassie knows of the bad girl and mentions her, just tell her you had that moment many men get where the hormones kick in and shroud good judgement...but your heart stepped up and was stronger, and saw who the real catch is. Take a chance...let us know how it goes.
Author Third age Posted November 13, 2010 Author Posted November 13, 2010 Thank you for the great advice. The bad girl (hayley) told me that she will go out with me today. So im confused...i like hayley but she flirts with guys alot. And i get jealous haha. Note: Im not dating for sex or anything just to find that special some1 who makes you feel good inside.
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