sbradford2 Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 Ok I've been dating this older guy for 3 months. We have so much in common and he wants a serious relationship like I do. He has no kids but I have 2. He wants to be intimate with me and I want to also but I am just really wondering how long should I wait. I know you cannot put a timeframe on this but I have been thinking about if it should happen should we plan for it? Where would be the most appropiate place since I have kids? And also is it ok to have him in my bed that me and my ex (kids father) shared together? I don't know. I want things to be right and I know that we are both adults but I'm a little confused.
dreamingoftigers Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 Thinking you have probably figured this out by now but 1) Get a sitter and ship the kids off 2) Intimacy when you feel comfortable enough to give it a go, should be able to talk to him about this. Good for you getting a guy who will wait that long and not be a pressuring jerk. Rare these days. 3)Plan for it and make it special, why the hell not eh? 4) As for the bed? enh? I wouldn't mention it to him, but if he says its an issue, then it is, otherwise it is your bed now.
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