whatadeer26 Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 I am dating this girl whom I like a lot. I try hard to make sure she is part of my life, social and family. We see each other normally once or twice a week. I have mentioned to her before I'd like to be part of her life. Like go out to clubs with her and her friends, but when she does it's always girls night out. She does not go out partying or clubbing a lot, but when she does she never asks me to join. I have been to family parties with her though. When we see each other we normally get dinner, movie, or just relax together. Is this weird or does she just want time out with her friends?
Art_Critic Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 To me it just sounds like she is keeping some space all by herself yet.. Time will tell.. but normally as a relationship progresses that type of girls night out thing will almost cease or it will become where everybody goes as couple and the occasional girls night out that she will need will still be there.. Give it time...
Author whatadeer26 Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 Thanks AC. All of her closest girlfriends are single, two of which are recently single. Last weekend was her birthday. I planned a bunch of stuff for Sunday into Monday and told her I'd like to go out Saturday night with her and her friends. Originally she said yes, then she messaged me later and said her one friend would be mad if I joined. I told her I understood and she said she knew I'd understand and she isn't mad because she will be with me Sunday. My coworker who is a girl told me to give her this space let her enjoy time with friends or the friends will hate me and she will resent me.
In The Green Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 My coworker who is a girl told me to give her this space let her enjoy time with friends or the friends will hate me and she will resent me. Yes this is true. She had friendships before you and she has to continue to nurture those. Your gf will be all the healthier for it to have supportive relationships with people besides you. If they are good people you can be thankful that she has them in her life. Many girls make the mistake of dropping all their friends when they get a bf, it hurts the friends deeply.
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