My ex just sent me this text after a long NC

[Pfiend101]

This woman http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t193943/

 

Sent me this text. "I have no idea what you saw in me. Why you cared so much and why you where above and beyond good"

 

I haven't sent anything back and probably wont. Just wondering what your take was.

 

I often wonder where we would be today if we were still together and all that stuff didnt go down. :/

[Hhhh]

looks like she has a lot of issues and if you really do love her and accept the flaws in her life then maybe you should be together but honestly you would probably be better off without her.

 

That text sounds like a weak moment and she misses you. After a break up both individuals make one another a god in their mind with no flaws, basically the perfect person.

[strangeways]

looks like she has a lot of issues and if you really do love her and accept the flaws in her life then maybe you should be together but honestly you would probably be better off without her.

 

That text sounds like a weak moment and she misses you. After a break up both individuals make one another a god in their mind with no flaws, basically the perfect person.

 

Agree with 4h and having read your original post she sounds like a very troubled individual.

 

Like my ex, when someone has gone through trauma(s) like she has she can't understand why someone would love her, want to be with her (my ex used to say similar things in a round about way). Low self esteem I guess. Nothing you can do about it. You can't help her only she can help herself.

[brown03]

I say text her back and try and boost her confident's. Say Why what are you talking about you are such an amazing person, your smart beautiful funny and you should never think otherwise. Seriously maybe alittle different I swear it will help. She needs it and girls love someone who makes them feel good about them self.

[whichwayisup]

Ignore it. She's fishing, so don't give her the reaction she's hoping for.