myname Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Don't be so sure about that. Whatever led him to have an A in the first place is still there. You have freedom; he doesn't. You have a new day filled with possibilities, he doesn't. Having been in a bad M, let me tell you, it is far worse than being alone. Hang in there and treat yourself to something today! Thanks, I'll try to see it this way. All I can think is all the times he said about problems in his marriage, all the things I believed were wrong, were all over blown. Otherwise how come he's staying and stayed so long? My freedom is just feeling very lonely. It's like Janis Joplin's lyric, 'Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose', and he had and still has so much to lose (his wonderful understanding long suffering wife) whereas I've got nothing. Oh, I'm just in one huge self pity fest right now.
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