Ganderson Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 If I just had a big argument with my girlfriend, and she demanded me not to call her anymore because she doe not love me anymore. Assuming that I still have feelings for her, what should I do? 1)should I call her, or 2)wait for her to call me, or 3) forget about the whole thing. G. A. Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 she asked you not to call. if you do so, you are technically harassing her. do not call her. this is the mercenary one, right? why would you even want to call her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ganderson Posted March 7, 2004 Author Share Posted March 7, 2004 Because I am still emtionally attached to her. I defintely know that she is a loser based from my objective point of view. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 Oh dear...I just responded to the post in the Dating thread, and had not seen this yet. I had better go find the other thread with what sounds like is going to be the full story. Thanks, jenny, for the reference. Link to post Share on other sites
fbstud83 Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 defintly don't call her let her cool down and think about it, this would be a good time to sit back and think if you really want to be with her...let her make the next move Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 She told you not to call. And you shouldn't. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 Originally posted by jenny she asked you not to call. if you do so, you are technically harassing her. do not call her. this is the mercenary one, right? why would you even want to call her? I agree. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 Originally posted by Ganderson Because I am still emotionally attached to her. .... I now understand, but please don't call her anyway. Talk to us instead. We really are here for you - I hope you know that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ganderson Posted March 9, 2004 Author Share Posted March 9, 2004 It is so hard for me not to call her, but I need to have some self-repect. I do not know why I fell in love with this abusive slut. When a woman does not answer her boyfriend's call at night, is she 1) playing games or 2) sleeping with someone at the time thus afraid to pick up the phone? george Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted March 9, 2004 Share Posted March 9, 2004 I don't know the story but just because she doesn't answer your call doesn't mean she is playing games or sleeping with someone. Assuming things is one of the main reasons why relationships breakup. What do you think would come about by you calling her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ganderson Posted March 9, 2004 Author Share Posted March 9, 2004 I can not call her. She was the one that chose to break up. I beg for a while, but I realized that my desperate behaviors made me a loser in front of her. George Link to post Share on other sites
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