IfiKnewThen Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 i hear from the ex occasionally on IM. he broke off with me in a sneaky cold hearted, distancing himself way, 5 months ago. we were long distance. i have a lot of away messages i leave on my buddy list, and he has commented on a few of them. mostly asking me (through an IM)...who was that message for. he acts nosey wanting to know, and asks in a way that insinuates that i am leaving the away messages for a man or that he suspects i am talking to a new man. he'll say something like...sorry to interrupt whoever that man was your talking to or person was..etc. (like that) anyway... meanwhile..he broke it off like a sneaKY cruel jerk and has someone he talks to and says he only started talking to right after he broke up with me. i know better he was talking to her and before the break up. and maybe talking to more than 1 woman. we were long distance by the way..but saw each other and talked for 10 years. anyway finally after 5 months he sent an im asking how everyone was and included saying ..."miss ya". like a jerk i said hi how is everyone over there. miss you too. honestly i really didnt want to say that and i dont miss this new him. cold idiot. it was a knee jerk reaction because it was the first affectionate normal thing he said in 5 months. he was very cold after dumping me. and acted like he didnt care if i was dead or alive. we used to talk and IM on one place online and then he left me stranded there and never logged on that place anymore. then when i saw logged on to another place and started leaving my away messages...i guess he got nosey..started to read them and get curious and then ask lame inquisitive questions. i can tall you i never directly answered them. i would digress and get off the subject. what was it his business if he didnt wanted me and was cold and cruel before. but yet i was glad he asked. then finally he added miss ya. but i feel like i gave him something he didnt deserve or earn to say miss you too afterwards. (2 hours later) now i am concerned if he thinks...oh whoever she is talking to....doesnt matter she still misses me. do you think he is smug? i know you dont know him lol. but what is the general opinion out there? feel stupid saying something he didnt deserve, plus i miss the old him and thats fading. not the real him. the new him i didnt know before. wonder if i should write back and say i dont really miss you. i dont even know you .
Author IfiKnewThen Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 ps i felt i was making stides. he was all curious. now does he think i miss him and feels like he got what he might have wanted ? ok thank u
jokesoflife Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 just don't make a fool out of yourself by contacting him back he just tried to throw a net and watch if you will fall for it by saying miss you
Author IfiKnewThen Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 i figured that. i WISH i didnt reply and formally say miss "you" too. he gave me a mere miss ya. and then i gave him a miss you. how can he even be jealous now about who i am talking with if he thinks i miss him. feeling stupid and duped.
Author IfiKnewThen Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 need more imput on here lol
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