Does this girl like me???

[jpaterson2525]

So i really can't figure out if this girl likes me or not. i met her 2 months ago.. and at this time i wasn't interested in her because i was after someone else... and we were talking and she said she wanted to help me with some homework and she asked me for my number. So then after a while i started texting her... and then i started to really like her. so at this point i feel like she likes me...

 

then this one time i asked her to help me study and she said she didn't know the material so that never happened... so i started to question if she liked me or not... then a few days later she texted me first to start a conversation... so i kind of felt like she was playing hard to get

 

then one time i texted her and she never responded. then i texted her again after a few days and she ended up saying she forget to get back to me... but i looked past that and i felt like everything was fine..

 

then this one time she texted me like 'hey whats up' i started texting her and she ended the conversation after like 3 texts.. so i feel like thats a sign shes playing hard to get...

 

then i told her i wanted to hang out with her sometime and she sounded like she really wanted to.. she told me to text her one night when i was out and she would come hang out. so then one saturday i texted her and asked her what she was doing later and she said nothing and asked me what i was doing. i told her i wanted to hang out and she seemed pretty excited and i told her i would text her later.

then later that night i was a little drunk (more buzzed) (yes she drinks too) and i texted her and she could probably tell.. she asked me if i was drunk and i said no but she knew i was joking. she said she was eating dinner and i asked her if she still wanted to hang out. she said yes and she said she would text me after she was done eating. and she never texted me. and its been 3 days now and i still haven't heard from her.

but i saw her the following morning from far away and she was coughing and looked sick. but i feel like she should of let me know...

 

We haven't really hung out much in person... mabey did she not want to be uncomfortable and didn't want to let me know it?

 

i kind of feel like shes playing hard to get because i feel like that was pretty mean and that doesn't really seem like her because shes so nice.. idk.

 

so whats your call... do you think she likes me? is she playing hard to get? or not interested?

Edited November 10, 2010 by jpaterson2525

[utterer of lies]

she likes your attention but is not interested.

[John018]

Just stop messing around and CALL her.

 

When you get her on the phone ask her out on an actual date at a fixed day and time. If she agrees then she likes you. If not then you're toast.

[jpaterson2525]

she texted me 4 days later... should i ignore her?

[John018]

she texted me 4 days later... should i ignore her?

 

What did she say?

[jpaterson2525]

she asked me why i wasnt in a class that i skipped... i said i didn't feel like going... she said called me lazy (joking) and i didn't respond

[810]

she asked me why i wasnt in a class that i skipped... i said i didn't feel like going... she said called me lazy (joking) and i didn't respond

off topic:

 

i hope you realize that going to class is for your education which has nothing to do with her.

 

that to say, stop being lazy and get your behind to class.

[jpaterson2525]

off topic:

 

i hope you realize that going to class is for your education which has nothing to do with her.

 

that to say, stop being lazy and get your behind to class.

 

do you really think i'm concerned about that. thats not the topic of this thread. this isn't timemanagment.org forums

[Green]

To give you some general advice, only ask yourself if you like and are attracted to the girl. If the answer to that questions is yes then you should TRY don't be afraid of rejection. You can't pre accept or reject yourself really just the fact that you 1)flirt 2) ask a girl out 3) and then have a date with her (touch/kiss) well any step 1-3 might get the girl to "like" you. Girls will like a guy who flirts... or asking a girl out will get a girl to like you... and if a girl is on the fence about you a good date (touch/kiss) will win her over.

 

The things with girls is even if they don't like you one day (reject you) asking them out another day and trying again could get you a date. Then there is the fact that once they do like you they could always change their mind.

 

bottom line only worry about what you think. you obviously like this girl or wouldn't have written about this so I say you TRY regaurdless of how it looks.

[810]

do you really think i'm concerned about that. thats not the topic of this thread. this isn't timemanagment.org forums

ok mister. don't have to come off reply like that when i mentioned off-topic. and just an fyi, it has nothing to do with time management.

 

now on topic: i hope she doesn't know that you were pursuing another girl and feels like she's your 2nd choice. if that's the case, and you really like her, then try harder and ask her out when you're not buzzed -- and do it face to face. if you like her, keep on trying. how you feel matters. i say, go for it again.

[jpaterson2525]

thanks for the advice everyone.. but i was already planning on pursuing her because i really like her. i was just curious about what you guys thought about the situation... do you think she likes me?

[jpaterson2525]

so anyone care to give their opinion??