McGrupp Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 i just want to tell all LS'ers it gets so much better. please, please, please believe me...you will find love, life and everything again. yesterday i got a message to friend her on linkdin after 9 months of NC and 14 months broken up. i just looked at it and deleted it. no spite, no hate or desire, just indifference (even though im writing about it now, but a year ago i wouldve ran here and asked what to do) i dont know how linkedin works so maybe it just went through her email and hit me up or she purposely did it. i set it up years ago and have like 4 friends and hardly any profile with no picture. no idea, but dont really care. if she wanted to talk to me she knows my number, email, etc. anyway...im saying you can get to this point too. be good to yourself.
Gt.ooh Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 I'm almost there, but still have the final push to get over. It's slowly feeling better.
just1guy Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 Yeah I want to know how the heck LinkedIn works. I was on it the other day, and the section that says "People you may know..." listed and pictured my ex...WTF. I have no idea how she was recommended because we don't work in the same field so don't share the same connections or went to the same college..
Author McGrupp Posted November 11, 2010 Author Posted November 11, 2010 maybe it searches your email? i would like to know how it works too. we do not work in the same industry at all either.
WTRanger Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 Linked in is one of those sneaky ass programs that searches your gmail, facebook, etc and "suggests" contacts. I'm thinking the request wasn't so random and I salute you for simply deleting it with the great feeling of indifference.
rebeccajones Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 That is SO freakin awesome!! Indifference! Love it!
Author McGrupp Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 played around with it the other day. you do have to go through every person to invite them or request. god pray you ex doesnt do this...now i been thinking bout her more. stay nC
Author McGrupp Posted November 18, 2010 Author Posted November 18, 2010 so theirs a setting wher eyou can hit up everyone in your email. thinking she did that and i just happened to be in the mix. which is a good thing. thought she gave a **** for a moment but its better to think she doesnt give a ****
Kic Posted November 18, 2010 Posted November 18, 2010 Atta boy, McGrupp. I remember your posts from a long time ago - glad to see this!
ColdFox Posted November 19, 2010 Posted November 19, 2010 i just want to tell all LS'ers it gets so much better. please, please, please believe me...you will find love, life and everything again. yesterday i got a message to friend her on linkdin after 9 months of NC and 14 months broken up. i just looked at it and deleted it. no spite, no hate or desire, just indifference (even though im writing about it now, but a year ago i wouldve ran here and asked what to do) i dont know how linkedin works so maybe it just went through her email and hit me up or she purposely did it. i set it up years ago and have like 4 friends and hardly any profile with no picture. no idea, but dont really care. if she wanted to talk to me she knows my number, email, etc. anyway...im saying you can get to this point too. be good to yourself. Congratulations. I hope you will make the most of this discovery, that you have moved on and are whole. My situation is a little different, but I do hope to get to this point again: please, please, please believe me...you will find love, life and everything again.
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