nowwhatnow Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 it has been 2 months mostly NC, with a few run-ins and one long talk. He has only tried to talk to me once, and I ignored his call and sent him a nasty text message. Will he ever truly miss me the way I miss him? How can he just move on and not care anymore? Did I really mean that little to him??
shayan Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 he will miss you from time to time yes. But he won't stop living his life. I don't expect he's sitting around right now mopping for you especially if he broke it off, he may be a little relieved I'm sorry I know it sucks, but you'll heal, you have to realize you can't sit around either. hey we all get broken!
skydiveaddict Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 the truth is , if he broke up with you, then he already doesn't miss you. That is why he broke up with you. Hard to accept, but most often the case.
Author nowwhatnow Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 I guess it is just hard to think that one day everything was perfect and the next day he just does not care anymore. It makes me lose faith in humanity a little, I do not think I will ever be able to trust someone and fall for them as hard as I did for him.
Am4Real Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 I guess it is just hard to think that one day everything was perfect and the next day he just does not care anymore. It makes me lose faith in humanity a little, I do not think I will ever be able to trust someone and fall for them as hard as I did for him. If you think hard about it you'll probably remember the early signs of him checking out of the relationship before you two actually broke it off. People do not often wake up one morning turn off an internal switch and break up all in the same day. It's normally a process that began weeks or more before the break up with one party pulling back or changing in some manner. Think about it...
skydiveaddict Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 I guess it is just hard to think that one day everything was perfect and the next day he just does not care anymore. It makes me lose faith in humanity a little, I do not think I will ever be able to trust someone and fall for them as hard as I did for him. I know how you feel. I can't trust again either.
Coolsbreeze Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 This happened with me and my ex girlfriend, we were in a LDR and she broke up with me 3 weeks after our last visit. And then she entered another relationship a week after ending things with me. I guess it was safe to say that she didn't truly love me or even really cared about me all too much and is not missing me like I miss her. I just can't understand how she could be so heartless when she said she loved me, this definitely makes me trust people less. I really need to put up more barriers to my heart in the future. I guess some people are wired like that
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