jessysea Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I have been in this relationship for over 8 years. We started off rocky. He caught me dating someone else in the beginning of our relationship. We decided to work things out. Then after about four years I just didn't feel the same about him. I moved out and we ended upgetting back together three months later. Since then he helped put me through school and we bought a house together last year. I am no longer living with him. I moved out three months ago. I found out he was seeing another girl and could not live with that. I am extremly depressed and we are trying to work things out... The thing is I love him and he says he loves me, but right now he can't live with me. Today we decided to start over and deal with past issues as they come up. He has since told me he does not want anything to do with this girl, but she keeps coming around. We have only been out together one time in the last three weeks. We did the no contact and he contacted me after a week. I did not answer him for three days. He was very persistant. I am not sure if I should move on or give us a try again????? He is still very angry about me seeing another guy years ago, and doesnt think his relationship with this girl is anything for me to be worried about. He has told me in the past that I pushed him to date her. Our biggest contact to eachother now is texting. But i dont want to be a text message girlfriend. what should I do? Any Questions, advice, anything would be helpful right now!!!! Thank you
Lauriebell82 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Sounds like you guys have a very turbulent relationship, and a lot of trust issues. Why do you keep breaking up in the first place?
Author jessysea Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 Most recently we broke up because he was seeing another girl. I couldn't deal with it. He told me that they where friends. But he hid her from me. To me that is not a friend.
Author jessysea Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 My mom just hung up on me and said I was stupid for talking to him. What great support I have right now!
Lauriebell82 Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 My mom just hung up on me and said I was stupid for talking to him. What great support I have right now! Hanging up on you wasn't nice, but I have to agree that you should probably just cut your losses. You two seem to have trust issues and lots of incompatibilities. It's been my experience that multiple breakups spell trouble for any couple. Soemtimes two people just aren't meant to be in a relationship. I suggest you move on, as hard as that will be to do.
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