cxgirl Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Hello! I'm feeling some anxiety over whether or not I will hear from this guy...I know I should just relax and let everything run its course, but unfortunately I don't operate that way at times Here's my situation... I was out for drinks and wings with a girl friend of mine and a table of 3 guys started chatting with us and invited us to come sit with them. I was immediately drawn to this one guy who seemed interested in me as well. We were all having great conversation so we went back to their house and watched some movies. Before we left the restaurant I asked him to take my number in case we got lost when we followed them. While every one else was out smoking, he was very attentive, opened doors for me,brought me closer to cuddle and got me a blanket because he felt my feet were cold. He kissed me a few times too...as the night went on one of the guys had taken to my friend and it looked as though it would be a sure thing for this guy and my friend. I suppose about the time that it was obvious the guy I was with tried moving his hand up my leg a bit and I moved it but continued to kiss him. We just continued to cuddle and watch the movie. I eventually asked if my friend wanted to leave and she said not yet. So the guy said he was really tired as it was 5am and he had to work early, he asked if I wanted to come in to lay down. I agreed, and when we got into bed I said I hope you weren't expecting anything from me, it's just not something I do. And he said he could tell, by me asking my friend if she was ready to go. I asked if he was expecting something, and he said its up in the air. If it does it does if not that's okay, I don't want to push your boundaries. So we just spooned until he fell asleep and my friend came and got me to leave. I gave him a kiss bye..and that was that. Do you think since I didn't have sex with him, he will not pursue anything? That he was just hoping for a one nighter. I will also mention, he lived in another city about an hour away and recently moved into the city and his luggage was open in his room and there was a condom on top. We are 23 by the way.
Template Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Maybe he will, maybe he won't. Just think of it as a night of fun. If calls, and was okay with everything that transpired, then it's no harm to find out what he's all about. If he doesn't, then you really didn't lose anything did you?
Surrealist Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Seems like a pretty good guy actually for not pushing it on to you. He might or might not as mentioned, but I wouldn't be surprised if he does contact you again. This outcome is a lot better than any ONS regardless of what may happen.
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