vitality Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 My 20 year old sister (I'm 19) has a history of failed relationships. My older sister's longest relationship was only 3 months long. She barely went out anywhere with them-- it mainly was a school relationship I'm assuming. Then she became OBSESSED with this chinese guy who wouldn't give her the time of day. Then my older sister hooked me up with this cuban guy she friended on myspace. We got talking on the phone and like 10 minutes of first talking to him on the phone I told him I'd date him (thinking he was desperate, depressed and lonely--because my sister made it seem like he was). He was like OK (to me saying I'd date him) and after 10 minutes of speaking with him for the first time we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He lived in Florida and I lived in Ohio... and that first day of talking to him he nagged me to come visit him in Florida. I was without a job so I didn't have the money to go visit him in Florida. He said he'd pay for my plane tickets-- but my family was not wanting me to visit him after only knowing him for less than a day. I was also afraid of going down to Florida so soon because I'd heard of all the dangers of meeting strange people online. I never did go down to visit him because he started losing interest after a week. He told me he loved me that night of first talking to him on the phone. He lied to me saying he had a dress for me and was going to send it to me by UPS-- but I never got it. He stopped calling and texting as the days went on. I was usually always the one to call or text him. One time I called him 8 times in a row and he picked up the 9th time and was all mean and was like don't go crazy and said he was sleeping. Then he hung up the phone. I was hurt to say the least. Also, one time I texted him out of the blue and asked him what he was doing and he said watching a movie. I broke it off with him when he went a week without calling/texting. I'm afraid I'm never going to have a successful relationshipjust like my sister
utterer of lies Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 That was no relationship, just a fantasy. You were never really boyfriend and girlfriend. Try to meet some people in real life.
Green Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 You and your sister are YOUNG so I wouldn't really worry about it. I didn't have my first relationship untill I was 22. You should try meeting people in real life who live closer to you instead of far away. Breaking up with this guy was a good thing.
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