newatthis1 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 this separation has left me with my self esteem destroyed!! I am so insecure in every aspect of my life!! I get excited over any guy just asking my name. What is wrong with me? i used to be secure of myself and was able to speak in front of people. All my girlfriend's have someone, I have nobody at all and I don't even know how to flirt! so pathetic!
HopelessinDTW Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 This is normal. You having doubts and losing confidence in yourself is a by-product of your separation. How long have you been separated? This past weekend I felt like I really couldn't bring myself to be with someone else, even if it was a fling. I think you need time to heal from your loss. And only then will you be able to flirt, and show men that you are ready to be with them. Being a man, it's even harder because we always have to make the first move. So low-self esteem is a bigger problem.
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