810 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 to ask a guy to hang out with you when you have fluttery feelings for? i mean i see him as friend and all but there's a certain awkwardness just to ask: hey whatcha doing this weekend?
xpaperxcutx Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Because you're afraid of rejection. Either that or you're really shy and you always get clammy hands when you're near him.
Author 810 Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 yea. fear of rejection is a b****. i'm an outgoing person by nature...however, i get nervous when i'm around him when we around people. but when just the two of us, i'm cool and laugh a lot. just when he looks at me in the eyes...i start to get chills running down my spine and i look away lolz i'm in my 20s and was in serious relationships before but I have never felt and acted this way before. feeling stupid but happy in a way.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 yea. fear of rejection is a b****. i'm an outgoing person by nature...however, i get nervous when i'm around him when we around people. but when just the two of us, i'm cool and laugh a lot. just when he looks at me in the eyes...i start to get chills running down my spine and i look away lolz i'm in my 20s and was in serious relationships before but I have never felt and acted this way before. feeling stupid but happy in a way. You're attracted to him then. Well I say chance it, because the only thing that will ever turn badly is you downing pints and pints of haagaendaz afterwards; and gaining 5 lbs. If you want something, you have to work for it.
TouchedByViolet Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Sounds like you are nervous and/or fearful. The best way to get over this is action. Have you made any sort of move to let him know you are interested. Touch him on the hand, shoulder or give a sexy smile? Either way you could always initiate with a suggestion for the weekend. The sooner you act and get an answer to his interest level the sooner you will get over your nerves and fear. Oh and you could end up being lucky and he is into you just as much as you are into him!
Author 810 Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 (edited) i asked him what's he doing this weekend...now waiting for a response is a b**** lolz Edited November 9, 2010 by 810
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