Author jimbo Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 Perhaps you are right. Just going to go with the flow. I will attempt a kiss at the end of the night, if its brushed off, then I got my answer. Simple enough.
musemaj11 Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 Nice girls who are looking for a lasting relationship often tend to give you more of a chance even if they don't fancy you, especially if you seem like good relationship material. And only desperate men with little dignity would beg for and take such chances. Where was I begging? Asked once and she agreed without hesitation. Not let me check my schedule. Not maybe, but yes. I am not sure why some people here are also leaning towards a pity date when nothing she said or did implies that. If you dont feel you meet the criteria of the desperate men I was talking about, then it was not directed at you.
bac Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 (edited) Some will do it to get a free meal. I agree with that. If a free meal involved, many women are not able to reject it. IMO, by the second date, a girl still does not know if she likes you. Edited November 10, 2010 by bac
D-Lish Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 I'd never go out for a second date out of pity. There would be no point. If I'm on the fence about someone, I might give it a second date to see how it goes, but pity? Never.
Mad Max Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 Some women will go on a second date simply for the free meal. Generally speaking, it's pretty easy to see if a woman is enjoying herself or not on date 1. If I see she's not enjoying herself, I won't allow for a second date, even if she pushes it. And I would never go on a second date with someone I'm not interested in. Why would I want to spend time with someone I don't want to be with?
musemaj11 Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 Some women will go on a second date simply for the free meal. Generally speaking, it's pretty easy to see if a woman is enjoying herself or not on date 1. If I see she's not enjoying herself, I won't allow for a second date, even if she pushes it. And I would never go on a second date with someone I'm not interested in. Why would I want to spend time with someone I don't want to be with? Some women will go on a second date simply for the free meal. Generally speaking, it's pretty easy to see if a woman is enjoying herself or not on date 1. If I see she's not enjoying herself, I won't allow for a second date, even if she pushes it. And I would never go on a second date with someone I'm not interested in. Why would I want to spend time with someone I don't want to be with? You answered your own question breda. :p:p
Mad Max Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 You answered your own question breda. :p:p I'm not in it for a free meal. I wouldn't want to spend time with someone I don't want to spend time with. Even if I was going to be treated, it's a waste of time to be with someone I don't want to be with.
musemaj11 Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 I'm not in it for a free meal. I wouldn't want to spend time with someone I don't want to spend time with. Even if I was going to be treated, it's a waste of time to be with someone I don't want to be with. Hey, I was just kidding yo. But the fact is a lot of people have no problem taking advantage of others.
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