SithLord Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 The reel tape! Where everyone highlights the great memories of their past relationship. Guess what! Throw those footages out the window. No sense of keeping it when it's the past, it only gives u a 3 second smile and that's all. The reel tapes make us dwell on the past and not focus on the present. The only time we should refer to the archives our for learning educational purposes only. No more mourning or crying. Use the force and move forward again. My fellow LS this Is Sith Lord! No Mercy Straight cut throat
thatsonlyme Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 It's a good theory, but in practice it would mean forgetting my entire adult life! I remember all the good times with my ex girlfriends and it's nothing more than just pleasant memories. It's my life and I want to remember it. During the healing process highlight reel can be painful and it should be pushed aside whenever possible, but later in life you'll be happy to have those memories! Ever seen the movie "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind"?
Author SithLord Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 The problem is as humans as time goes bye we only tend to remember the good and not the bad.
thatsonlyme Posted November 11, 2010 Posted November 11, 2010 The problem is as humans as time goes bye we only tend to remember the good and not the bad. true, but time also heals. My first love left me ten years ago, I saw her once or twice in all this time, now we're friends on the facebook, she's married and has a kid. I have absolutely no feelings for her, she's just like one of those people on the facebook that you hardly even know but you just comment on each others status once in a while. here and there if something reminds me on that time I remember her, things we did together but it's like remembering good times with a long forgotten friend. I'm sure I'll feel the same about my current ex 10 years from now, but right now just thinking that everything that matters now will become just a faint memory is hurting me! She's still around, break up is still fresh and my heart just won't let go! I feel particularly ****ty tonight, probably because a friend made me go with her, her husband and my ex for one last dinner before she moves to LA. It's worse than reel tape, it's reliving memories of four of us hanging out together in better times. I'm almost enjoying my pain, because felling pain is better than feeling absolutely nothing!
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