Art_Critic Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 I had a FANTASTIC time tonight! The most fun I've had in awhile. We really clicked in person. We went to my favorite Vietnamese place for dinner, and then we went bowling--3 games, and he won all of them. We were trash-talking/trying to intimidate each other the whole time; it was really funny. We were laughing so much. He started finding ways to touch me while we were at our game; it was cute. We then went for a short walk around my former campus, which was very cool because I ran into one of my best friends who I haven't seen in months! We got to talking for a bit and then we said our goodbyes when the campus shuttle came; she'd been waiting for it. We sat in his car for a little while, talking and listening to the CD I brought. Then he took me back to my place, parked in the driveway and we made out for over an hour. It was hot. He wants to see me again. That's the way is should be.. good for you getting past the ex...
Art_Critic Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 He was perfectly fine with how things were going and would've continued in his behavior toward me if I had stayed. There would be no incentive for him to stop. And I'm not sure he could just stop...he has major issues. This.. perfect summary... Glad your eyes are wide open now...
Author tigressA Posted November 13, 2010 Author Posted November 13, 2010 Thanks, Art. I am too. At first I was over-analyzing about going out on the date. I thought, "It's been less than a week; what, I can't be alone for even one week?" and blah blah blah. But then I stopped myself. It was just one date--no guarantees, no expectations. I ended up thinking of it as a fun time out with someone who I happened to find attractive. I would've felt the same way about the night (it being fantastic) if it had just been with friends. Regardless of who I spent my time with last night, the same point would've been hammered home.
pandagirl Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 I let myself get swept up in C's 'future' BS. I thought that there would be a brilliant future for us if we could get through what was going on in the present. Took some time for me to see that 'we' weren't suffering through the present--only I was. He was perfectly fine with how things were going and would've continued in his behavior toward me if I had stayed. There would be no incentive for him to stop. And I'm not sure he could just stop...he has major issues. I do hope he's happy, though. I know I have been, and will continue to be. I'm excited for what happens next! Good for you to realize this so quickly! I think you're spot on with your analysis.
Author tigressA Posted November 14, 2010 Author Posted November 14, 2010 I was talking with a friend I hadn't been in contact with for a time, and she commented on my relatively new single status on Facebook. I told her what went down and she said, "Seriously? That guy's an idiot. He should just get a puppy." :laugh: Things have been low-key since Friday night; I've been staying around the house.
Author tigressA Posted November 15, 2010 Author Posted November 15, 2010 Right now I'm talking on the phone with the guy I went out with Friday; he called me. He asked me out again for this upcoming Friday and I said yes. I'm looking forward to it.
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