logalog23 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Hey guys, here's my situation. We went out for a month and in the beginning all was good. at first, she liked me more than i liked her or she made it seem. then things started to turn on me when she always got mad at me for small things. and she said i'm not caring enough. so then i started showing more attention. maybe a little too much. I realized that when she said that I showed way too much attention and affection and maybe placed her on a pedestal. after about 1 and a half months she ended it with me and said she doesn't know what she wants. this was my first college relationship and have little experience on how to be a boyfriend. i did no contact for a week and she messaged me the day after we broke up and i ignored it. after a week she messaged me again and I responded this time. i tried to act like i was fine and she asked how i was and why i ignored her the last time she messaged me. i pretended like i didn't know what she was talking about. i said i was doing fine and we had some small chat and i said i had to go and stopped messaging her. is all hope lost in trying to get her back? i know this was a really short relationship and i think that maybe if i didn't turn needy in the middle when i panicked it wouldn't have ended so quickly.
dreamingoftigers Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 It was probably for the best, if you are already having trouble six weeks in, that is a HUGE RED FLAG.
Hules Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 Yer mate i think you really need to ask yourself do you want to be in a relationship with a girl like this. Ive dated girls like this and my gut tells me RUN, don't beat yourself up about it. Unless you like drama in your life then by all means keep chasing her
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