xpaperxcutx Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Well I certainly discovered this method a short while back, and you can't even imagine the messages that bombard my phone when I turn passive aggressive.
Untouchable_Fire Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Well I certainly discovered this method a short while back, and you can't even imagine the messages that bombard my phone when I turn passive aggressive. Ah! I've been trying to put my finger on why that thread was so irritating even though it had a bit of truth to it. I think you just nailed it! It's passive aggressive.... and PA people drive me nuts!
skydiveaddict Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 The best way to a guy and to keep him around, is to treat him like crap. Men respect women who are demanding, unreliable, who put them on ice. These are the things you need to do to keep a guy around. I can't agree. Most men will not put up w/this. That's how women like to be treated. You are taking these recent "bad boy " threads and trying to extrapolate that behavior to women. It's not a two way street. The only "man" that would put up with that is a "nice guy". (Doormat), which you wouldn't date in the first place.
Surrealist Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Yes!! You know, I am such a sweet, loving person that I simply MUST oblige those fellas out there who so obviously desire to have their hearts trampled into dust with the cold efficiency of a red stiletto heel. I mean, as a nice girl how could I not see how sexist it would be to refuse to treat a man with a complete lack of human dignity (just the way he likes it) as though he was too feeble and weak to handle it? After all after he can just walk away if he really wants to (after I've already mentally smacked him around). I've been working very hard on my 'weak', 'doormat', and 'wimp' qualities. I figure may as well build up my strengths as well. The thing is, even though women treat me like this, with such contempt and disregard to the last pitiful remaining dignity I hope to have, I just cannot stop falling for them over and over again. I cannot leave them because I just cannot 'think straight' anymore. I am a 'victim' of their abuse, and I cannot escape, being the hapless, defenseless, choiceless soul that I am. Oh! And though I am strongly attracted to abusive soul-destroying women, I really don't like it you know?
Titania22 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I've been working very hard on my 'weak', 'doormat', and 'wimp' qualities. I figure may as well build up my strengths as well. The thing is, even though women treat me like this, with such contempt and disregard to the last pitiful remaining dignity I hope to have, I just cannot stop falling for them over and over again. I cannot leave them because I just cannot 'think straight' anymore. I am a 'victim' of their abuse, and I cannot escape, being the hapless, defenseless, choiceless soul that I am. Oh! And though I am strongly attracted to abusive soul-destroying women, I really don't like it you know? I really hope you're NOT being serious Surrealist.
LittleTiger Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I can't agree. Most men will not put up w/this. That's how women like to be treated. You are taking these recent "bad boy " threads and trying to extrapolate that behavior to women. It's not a two way street. The only "man" that would put up with that is a "nice guy". (Doormat), which you wouldn't date in the first place. Urrrmmm I think that was the whole point of this thread. It was a 'joke'.
musemaj11 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Errr, guys do like bitches. It is a fact. But the difference is that unlike women, men dont try to tame bitches and get them to settle. Instead they simply leave them when they are done having fun and settle with homely nice women.
Author that girl Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 I can't agree. Most men will not put up w/this. That's how women like to be treated. You are taking these recent "bad boy " threads and trying to extrapolate that behavior to women. It's not a two way street. The only "man" that would put up with that is a "nice guy". (Doormat), which you wouldn't date in the first place. *Face palm* My post was satirizing The Fourth Planet's post. Yes, some people seek out people who will treat them badly, but it isn't just women as you can see by looking at the controlling women thread posted today. It is ridiculous to say women like to be treated badly or women like bad boys. Sure, some women do. But the only people who buy into the idea that most women do are unable to see women as people. I'm not a freaking space alien. I am as rational as any man despite my vagina and what women look for isn't that different from what men look for.
Citizen Erased Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 What is even funnier than the OP is the people taking it seriously.
utterer of lies Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 ... I thought parodies were supposed to be funny?
Anela Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Errr, guys do like bitches. It is a fact. But the difference is that unlike women, men dont try to tame bitches and get them to settle. Instead they simply leave them when they are done having fun and settle with homely nice women. And this is just the type of guy I'd like to avoid. Having his "fun" and then settling for someone? Ugh.
Anela Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I can't agree. Most men will not put up w/this. That's how women like to be treated. You are taking these recent "bad boy " threads and trying to extrapolate that behavior to women. It's not a two way street. The only "man" that would put up with that is a "nice guy". (Doormat), which you wouldn't date in the first place. Women *don't* like to be treated this way.
Andy_K Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 skydive is right in a way though... more women will respond positively to this kind of treatment than men will. You do see guys with really nasty women... but when a guy is attracted to a 'bitch' it's generally purely because she's drop-dead gorgeous. You take away the bitchiness and you'd have a much *more* desirable partner. It's a little different with the 'bad boys'. When a girl likes one of those it's some combination of perceived confidence/leadership/excitement/unpredictability/dominance that is responsible for much of the attraction. These things are related to his behaviour towards her. You make him treat her much better, and the perceived polarity of many of the above attributes will lessen significantly. Hence he'll be less attractive. Disclaimer: The above obviously does not apply to all girls or all guys. Just a significant chunk of the ones who do go for bad boys/bitches.
Mellisa Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 The best way to a guy and to keep him around, is to treat him like crap. Men respect women who are demanding, unreliable, who put them on ice. These are the things you need to do to keep a guy around. These are the things you need to do to get a guy interested in you: - Say you'll call later; don't call for three days -Say you'll see her Friday night, then go out with your girls instead and tell him you forgot. -Give him backhanded compliments. These comments sound like compliments, but in reality you are eroding whatever little self-esteem he has left, but he can't hold them against you. Example- "You're so great in bed for a guy with a small cock." That's how you keep them in line. They come back for more, and more, and more. Never forget that it is bitches who get what they want and nice girls who spend Saturday nights alone. How many times have you watched the cute guy get with a girl who treats him like crap? How many guys have overlooked you while going for your materialistic, manipulative friend? How many guys have cheated on you? Now, many of you girls have been deceived into believing that those girls are wrong and you're right. BUT WHO HAS GUYS ADORING THEM? The women who treat guys like crap. How many times have you or one of your girls ever sat there and said, "I loved him so much, I never nagged, I never asked him to do anything for me, I did EVERYTHING I could: I dressed up in lingerie, I always told him how great he was, and I blah, blah, blah, blah, blah ... and he STILL screwed my best friend." How many times have you or one of your girls said that? I mean, think hard about this. Had made him buy you things, nagged at him for every little thing, demanded he hang out with you instead of the boys, you would've been better off. If he bought you a gift, you should have sulked and said you wanted the more expensive one. Then he would have known how much he had to give to keep you. This is how you keep a man. I know it's counter-intuitive, but if you think about it, it makes perfect sense because we've all seen guys stay with these horrible girls. That's what turns men on, women who demand everything and tell them they are never good enough. Instead of fighting it, instead of trying to save the world, why don't just go with the flow, huh? Why not treat men the way they want to be treated: like CRAP! Save yourself the long, lonely Friday nights when you're sitting there watching Lifetime at home, feeling sorry for yourself and eating Ben and Jerry's. Men cannot resist women who make them work everyday for even the smallest hint of affection. They know they're losers and they want a woman who knows it too. If you are sweet and understanding he ... will get ... bored. Men love unpredictability- why do you think they love sports so much? They love working for it, every minute of every day. THAT is what they want. They don't want you, Miss Perfect. They don't. All you girls who try to be so gooooooooooood, so perfect, so thoughtful, so sensitive, you're ALL GETTING CRAPPED ON! EVERY ONE OF YOU. (In the voice of John Facenda) You want to be the irresponsible bitch you know you have inside you. Men FLOCK to guys like you. Remember, everyday you spend showing him how loving you are, his head is being turned by the materialistic bitch who turns up her nose at him. It's time YOU become THAT girl. Or at least APPEAR to be that girl, because that is what turns them on, that is what they love. In my time being with men, one thing that gets them hotter is when I put 'em on ice. That's it, put 'em on ice. The minute he starts getting out of control, the minute she starts telling me what to do, or the minute he tries to latch onto me, or "I wanna watch the game," whenever that stuff starts, you put 'em on ice. It's an aphrodisiac because they want to be disciplined. They are bad, bad boys who need to be disciplined. Not with a hand, not with a fist, not with a knife, not with a broken bottle. It's just by neglecting them. Seriously, this is for real?
theBrokenMuse Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Seriously, this is for real? It's a parody of a male that is actually bragging in the exact same manner about how to shamefully manipulate your emotional responses in order to more successfully trawl for women with low self-esteem who are vulnerable to such tactics as though it's actually somehow a good thing for a person to lose their sense of integrity, character and ethics in order to get laid.
Woggle Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Yeah it does, look at the thread on domineering women. Some guys go for this. That's because if men don't want to be treated like this then we are misogynists who are afraid of strong women and want a stepford wife that we can abuse. We are shamed for wanting a woman who treats us well.
theBrokenMuse Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 You do see guys with really nasty women... but when a guy is attracted to a 'bitch' it's generally purely because she's drop-dead gorgeous. Bull. Most of the women I have seen behave in a manner that was verbally and emotionally abusive were average looking. Men with low self-esteem that feel most secure when they are not responsible for making life decisions (because they subconsciously don't feel confident enough to make choices for themselves comfortably) go for shrewish mother figures. You take away the bitchiness and you'd have a much *more* desirable partner. Take away their personality and it would make them a desirable partner? When choosing a life partner the personality traits and character of that individual damn well better be on the top of the list if a person has any sense whatsoever.
dispatch3d Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Bull. Most of the women I have seen behave in a manner that was verbally and emotionally abusive were average looking. Men with low self-esteem that feel most secure when they are not responsible for making life decisions (because they subconsciously don't feel confident enough to make choices for themselves comfortably) go for shrewish mother figures. Take away their personality and it would make them a desirable partner? When choosing a life partner the personality traits and character of that individual damn well better be on the top of the list if a person has any sense whatsoever. hahaha so you're saying the meanest ones aren't the hottest? Have you talked to hot women? Like not a 7 if you want to use scales, and my skin just crawled a bit saying that. But a girl who is drop dead gorgeous? Anyhow, believe what you want, I find this entertaining regardless.
Andy_K Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Take away their personality and it would make them a desirable partner? When choosing a life partner the personality traits and character of that individual damn well better be on the top of the list if a person has any sense whatsoever. Bitchiness, in whatever manner, is ONE PART of someone's personality. They're perfectly capable of also having a great sense of humour, being fun, responsible, honest, intelligent, and plenty of other things. To equate it with their entire personality, as you're doing, is a pretty cheap way of taking the moral high ground of 'personality tops everything'.
theBrokenMuse Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 hahaha so you're saying the meanest ones aren't the hottest? Yup. That is exactly what I am saying. The men with the lowest sense of self-worth would never even attempt to hit on the really hot ones. The major difference between the way the bitchy hot girl and bitchy mother figure act are this: One is generally nasty to EVERYONE while the other is generally nasty to HIM (and any female she may deem a 'threat' to her man-child.) Have you talked to hot women? Like not a 7 if you want to use scales, and my skin just crawled a bit saying that. But a girl who is drop dead gorgeous?My sister is an ex-model and I've known many of her model friends over the years so, yeah I have. Anyhow, believe what you wantI believe in a whatever conclusions that I draw from observing reality with objectivity... is there a better way to go about it? I find this entertaining regardless.Um, I aim to please?
theBrokenMuse Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Bitchiness, in whatever manner, is ONE PART of someone's personality. They're perfectly capable of also having a great sense of humour, being fun, responsible, honest, intelligent, and plenty of other things. To equate it with their entire personality, as you're doing, is a pretty cheap way of taking the moral high ground of 'personality tops everything'. To say that if you take away their abusive attitude towards their partners they would be great partners is kind of like saying that Joan Crawford would make a great Mom if she would just stop with her control freak behaviors and drinking binges. Everyone has some positive attributes but those kinds of defects permeate the other aspects of their personality and are usually deeply ingrained making things like their sense of humor minuet in comparison.
SteveC80 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Bad satire The mistreatment thing is not just women but mostly becasue the traits that women find raw sexually arousing subconciously: alphaness domination power strength can sometimes come off a little harsh So the things they find sexually attratcive in Men can also be used against them in some ways Men find things like sweet carign nuruturing subconsciosuly things they want to mate with which rarely leads to abuse Women dont find those traits sexually attractive on a raw level otherwise theyd date women
Author that girl Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 Men find things like sweet carign nuruturing subconsciosuly things they want to mate with which rarely leads to abuse Women dont find those traits sexually attractive on a raw level otherwise theyd date women Then why do women ooh and ah over a photo of an attractive shirtless man cuddling a baby? Men are not from Mars, Women are not from Venus.
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