USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 :laugh: So this past weekend, I saw my ex from last year (the one that brought me to LS in the first place) out at a local bar...it was hella awkward as it was the first time I'd seen her in over a year...we talked for maybe 20 seconds and then went our separate ways... So tonight I go to the gym, and lo and behold, I think I see her...could it be...? Yep...it's her again...she's working out at my gym now... I guess she recently moved to my area... So I try to be cordial and say "hi, what the f*ck are you doing here...?" ...you know...but she was just as mean and bitchy as she was when I saw her at the bar...and then we go our separate ways... Luckily I own that gym...
xpaperxcutx Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I wanted to say what a small world it is but wtf! Your ex is the devil.
northern_sky Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 :laugh: So this past weekend, I saw my ex from last year (the one that brought me to LS in the first place) out at a local bar...it was hella awkward as it was the first time I'd seen her in over a year...we talked for maybe 20 seconds and then went our separate ways... So tonight I go to the gym, and lo and behold, I think I see her...could it be...? Yep...it's her again...she's working out at my gym now... I guess she recently moved to my area... So I try to be cordial and say "hi, what the f*ck are you doing here...?" ...you know...but she was just as mean and bitchy as she was when I saw her at the bar...and then we go our separate ways... Luckily I own that gym... She sounds like a biotch, so why are you doing the stop and chat with her? Stop trying to be cordial. By doing so, you're lowering yourself imo. If I were you, I'd do what I did when I last randomly ran into my ex in a shop: flash her a quick glare full of smug contempt and then go about your business. You should have seen my ex's facial reaction when I did this. I felt high for the rest of the day.
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 She sounds like a biotch, so why are you doing the stop and chat with her? Stop trying to be cordial. By doing so, you're lowering yourself imo. If I were you, I'd do what I did when I last randomly ran into my ex in a shop: flash her a quick glare full of smug contempt and then go about your business. You should have seen my ex's facial reaction when I did this. I felt high for the rest of the day. I didn't stop to "chat" with her...I actually stopped to confirm it was actually her...and if we are going to have to see each other every f'in day at the gym, I didn't want to have this air of hostility every time I worked out...I'm over it, so I just wanted to tell her it's cool and get on with my day... I literally do own that gym, so I don't need to flash any glares or hostile looks...I have a good time at the gym and do what I need to do...and that's enough to get that satisfying feeling...she's going to have to avoid me if she wants to play that game...
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 Your ex is the devil. I dunno...maybe...I was just surprised at how bitchy and dismissive she was...maybe she changed in the past year and a half... When I asked what she was doing there, she replied "I live here..." in a very snarky tone...like I was intruding on her space and need to find a new gym or something...I'm not trying to start a turf war and I seriously wanted us to coexist peacefully in the same place, but she is giving off that air of pretentiousness... Who knows...
Don Ho Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 LOL. Just tell her the "owner" reviewed her membership application and denied it and she'll have to leave! LOL. Jk, but it would be fun wouldn't it?
northern_sky Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I didn't stop to "chat" with her...I actually stopped to confirm it was actually her...and if we are going to have to see each other every f'in day at the gym, I didn't want to have this air of hostility every time I worked out...I'm over it, so I just wanted to tell her it's cool and get on with my day... I literally do own that gym, so I don't need to flash any glares or hostile looks...I have a good time at the gym and do what I need to do...and that's enough to get that satisfying feeling...she's going to have to avoid me if she wants to play that game... you literally own the gym? Like you run the business there? Wow.
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 you literally own the gym? Like you run the business there? Wow. Heheh...yes...I own the whole thing...
Art_Critic Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Heheh...yes...I own the whole thing... So that is how you treat your paying customers ? Did she pay to be there ?
durkadurka Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 If a paying customer was one of my exs there's a distinct chance I'd throw her out the door and throw her refund right out the door with her.
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 Hahah, it was a figurative "own the place"... to all of you... But I am kind of a big deal there... :laugh:
xpaperxcutx Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Hahah, it was a figurative "own the place"... to all of you... But I am kind of a big deal there... :laugh: lol You had me there for a sec. Why don't you just spite her by working out half naked, that is just a suggestion unless you're already working out half naked... carry on.
northern_sky Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Hahah, it was a figurative "own the place"... to all of you... But I am kind of a big deal there... :laugh: but you said "literally"! I'm confused.
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 lol You had me there for a sec. Why don't you just spite her by working out half naked, that is just a suggestion unless you're already working out half naked... carry on. Hahah, well, I talked to one of my friends who's also a regular there about the situation and he said that I should just continue being awesome...and hopefully she'll just go away on her own... But the one thing that kind of throws me for a loop is that after all this time, she (the dumper) is the one who has the problem with peaceful coexistence. I'm not trying to be her friend by any stretch of the imagination, but I would have expected at least a little bit of courtesy from her being that we once were such an important part of each other's lives... I have no problem with her living in the area or even working out at the same gym, but I'm just shocked at the level of immaturity she is demonstrating...
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 but you said "literally"! I'm confused. Yes, I know...and I figuratively said "literally"...
johan Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I'm sorry to hear that your ex invaded your special place.
Jannah Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I'm sorry to hear that your ex invaded your special place. good one, lol.
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 I'm sorry to hear that your ex invaded your special place. Yea, when I read about Star's special place being invaded, I would have never thought that my own inner sanctum would ever be invaded...and to this degree...
northern_sky Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Yea, when I read about Star's special place being invaded, I would have never thought that my own inner sanctum would ever be invaded...and to this degree... I feel some double-ended dildo joke coming on.
johan Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Yea, when I read about Star's special place being invaded, I would have never thought that my own inner sanctum would ever be invaded...and to this degree... Wow. You didn't mention she got all the way into your sanctum.. Sounds like you had more than a quick chat.
northern_sky Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 wow. You didn't mention she got all the way into your sanctum.. Sounds like you had more than a quick chat. ..........................
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 Wow. You didn't mention she got all the way into your sanctum.. Sounds like you had more than a quick chat. :laugh: Well played, good sir. But no. Never.
Author USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2010 Author Posted November 9, 2010 Why is this in the "coping" section? Hmmm...good point...I'm certainly not "coping"...perhaps it would have been better in the personal rants section...
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