befreckled Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I have a problem and it isn't getting a date. It is getting a second date. I'm on OKC. In terms of behaviour, I've gone both ends of the spectrum - sleeping on the first date (Date A) and being a complete good girl with a kiss on the cheek (Date B) Date A: He was radio silent for 2 weeks and then I got an email apology explaining that he is in abit of drama. I replied back to ask him if he wanted to make up for it, he said yes and suggested dinner the following week. The following week came, and nothing. Date B: We went for dinner. On the way back, I asked him a couple questions - one of it being what's your best date thus far? and his reply was: This might be it. *cue blushing* And I didn't feel like it was a line, I've been fed lines before and truthfully this didn't feel like that. We got to our stop and he kissed me on my cheek. When I got back, we exchanged a couple text msgs about a subject in our conversation before and that was that. It was Saturday night. No word from him on Sunday or Monday. So, in that aspect, I think the sex matters little. What can I do short of emailing the guys asking for an exit interview? I am not hung up on the guys per se. It was one date. I am wondering what I'm doing wrong. With Date B, it came out in our dinner conversation that I had an addiction issue as a teenager and I've since sought treatment and have recovered fully. If that's the reason, then why tell me that I'm his best date?
utterer of lies Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I have a problem and it isn't getting a date. It is getting a second date. I'm on OKC. In terms of behaviour, I've gone both ends of the spectrum - sleeping on the first date (Date A) and being a complete good girl with a kiss on the cheek (Date B) Date A: He was radio silent for 2 weeks and then I got an email apology explaining that he is in abit of drama. I replied back to ask him if he wanted to make up for it, he said yes and suggested dinner the following week. The following week came, and nothing. Date B: We went for dinner. On the way back, I asked him a couple questions - one of it being what's your best date thus far? and his reply was: This might be it. *cue blushing* And I didn't feel like it was a line, I've been fed lines before and truthfully this didn't feel like that. We got to our stop and he kissed me on my cheek. When I got back, we exchanged a couple text msgs about a subject in our conversation before and that was that. It was Saturday night. No word from him on Sunday or Monday. So, in that aspect, I think the sex matters little. What can I do short of emailing the guys asking for an exit interview? I am not hung up on the guys per se. It was one date. I am wondering what I'm doing wrong. With Date B, it came out in our dinner conversation that I had an addiction issue as a teenager and I've since sought treatment and have recovered fully. If that's the reason, then why tell me that I'm his best date? "This might be it" is an evasive answer, not as positive as you seem to think. Its an easy answer that will not hurt your feelings but avoids further questions. Anyway, it's best not to dwell on dates that didn't work out too much.
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