danny1972 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 im ok im getting through my break up been 8 months now , technically i should be over it i have my good days my bad days but generally fine then BANG im drunk i reach for my phone type out the msg about how i feel about her read it back to my self several times my hands tremble over the send button then i think **** it then hit SEND button hoping she will txt back in 30 sec declaring her un dying love and that she feels the same ......only to wake up to a hang over and a text in the morning saying " we both moved on i cant go back to that " .... damn alcohol puts me back to square one any one else done the same ??
Eternity001 Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I think most people would be lying if they said they haven't. I think when your drunk your numb to it and can almost take any response you get regardless. At least in my experience. I'm usually not too bad and relatively switched on when drunk though, thankfully. Although I have made some pretty BAD mistakes on the liquor too mind you.
Capital P Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 delete her number and get other girls to drunk text.
Leandro Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I have never made this mistake, because I don't drink much and if i do, i make sure i don't get drunk. I also deleted her number and if I'm drunk I'm sure i cant recall the number. But I'm sure if i was drunk and the number was on my phone, I would text.
skydiveaddict Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I have never made this mistake, because I don't drink much and if i do, i make sure i don't get drunk. I also deleted her number and if I'm drunk I'm sure i cant recall the number. But I'm sure if i was drunk and the number was on my phone, I would text. I deleted her # as well. I think that's the only reason I haven't done it too.
D-Lish Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 When I am done with someone, or I know they are done with me, I delete them completely.
ReturnToSender Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Deleting doesnt help me.. One of the first things I did when we became exclusive was memorize his number, so that if ever there was an emergency or something happened, I know his number by heart. Aye! LoL I could be falling down drunk and half asleep, and still be able to dial his number in to text him. I know..cause Ive done it. When we first broke up, friends would take me out to have a good time and get my mind off of him....two, three drinks later, Ive got liquor courage and would text him anything ranging from "how could you I loved you!" to "you rat bastard!" Aye! He responded to me every time....sometimes wed argue, sometimes hed calm me down, but always Id end up in tears and worse off than when the nite started. It got less and less though, and now I guess its out of my system since I can now go out have a couple drinks, have fun and come home, like a normal human being, instead of ending up on my friends couch crying "but whyyyy!" while she tried to convince me to get some sleep. Wow, those were the days! LoL After I got past that, whenever Id send an angry text, I was totally sober. I think he preferred it when I was drunk....Im more clever when I have all my wits about me Nowadays, I skip it altogether...if I feel myself getting annoyed, I leave my phone alone. part of it maybe cause Im too embarrassed to admit after all this time, I still get emotional over him. Ill admit, I have slipped a couple of times. Wish I could blame it on being drunk LoL but Im back to my usual boring self, and barely drink anymore so thats out.
skydiveaddict Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Deleting doesnt help me.. One of the first things I did when we became exclusive was memorize his number, I can understand that. Fortunately, I can't memorize ****.
ReturnToSender Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I can understand that. Fortunately, I can't memorize ****. Thats what he said when I told him he should memorize my number too and he said no one needs to memorize numbers nowadays. Fast forward, weve broken up and we were somewhere where someone asked me my number to fill out some form. He quickly spoke up, rattled off my number and gave me this huge smile. I really do wonder at what point he decided to learn my number, and how long he was waiting in anticipation of being able to show to me he memorized it all cause I had asked him to
Leandro Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 I memorized my ex's number too. I still know it very well.
skydiveaddict Posted November 9, 2010 Posted November 9, 2010 Once i put her # in my phone, I just looked for the name. I don't think I ever once looked at her #. Glad i didn't.
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