illuminarium Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Ugh. Despite the fact that his crap is still in my apartment, he has a key, and I need to keep him somewhat informed of baby matters (I'm pregnant with his baby), I'm trying to start NC with my recent ex, at least for a couple of weeks. A couple of days ago he took my face moisturizer (when I wasn't here) and my iPod. I asked him via email to return them, he replied that he would buy the iPod, I responded with a price and since then my items have not shown up in the house and I have not received any emails. Mind you, he has time to log into an online dating site three times a day even though we've been broken up less than a week. I can't expect his crap to be gone ASAP as he's couch surfing until he has money for an apartment, but why would he not return my stuff? I also asked him to clean out a small room since I can't lift heavy items and he hasn't done a thing. I'm gone all day, he'd have ample time to get in and out of here without seeing me. Please please tell me not to send an email. I'm so godamn furious right now!!
Fern Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Don't send an email. Change the locks. That should get his attention. Get a friend to help you clear out the room. Tell him he can have his stuff when you get your stuff. See a lawyer about baby/money stuff. Tough love. You have a child to take care of soon - if he is not going to be a positive thing in the life of that child, he needs to get gone.
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