sweetenough Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I've been talking to a guy for about 4 weeks now and have met up with him once (we were both on our lunch break). I am 17 years old and he turned 20 last week. Things went great! We were having a nice conversation with A LOT of flirting thrown in, long and steady eye contact with each other and he was constantly smiling and laughing. At the end of our meeting, which was a Monday, he proposed meeting on Friday because he had a day off. He then texted me that night- because I said to him, "you're terrible at texting back" and was really cheeky and sweet, even called me 'babe'. Our 'date' ended with us both lingering about and looking shyly at each other- we didn't know what to do! But he asked for a hug, and of course that is what he got! The next day he texted me and said he had to work on Friday, so I asked when could I see him- and he said "maybe Sunday, but I may be hungover!" (It was his birthday this week, and he went out to celebrate) and voilà! Sunday night and NOTHING. I texted him Saturday morning asking if Sunday was still on and I didn't get a reply, and last night I tried probing him on Facebook and again nothing. I know he got very hurt in his past relationship of 2 years, she cheated on him. This is why I am giving him 110% and receiving about 20%. I know he doesn't trust girls much and I want to prove myself to him that I would never hurt him- but he's making it so difficult. I know I shouldn't NEED to prove myself to him, but I honestly thought he was worth it. Today he is all I have thought about because it was one week ago today I spent time with him- I even met his Mom in town by accident and she was REALLY lovely to me. I'm currently not planning on speaking to him until he comes to me, because I think there comes a point in which enough is enough and I need to keep my self respect instead of chasing somebody who doesn't seem to realise how much I care for him. Any idea why he suddenly stopped all contact? And is ignoring him the right way to go in this situation? Thanks for reading.
tinktronik Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Any idea why he suddenly stopped all contact? And is ignoring him the right way to go in this situation? Thanks for reading. Sorry to say it but he's just not that into you. Write him off and move on to somebody that has the energy and time and interest to return your calls and be excited about you.
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