primer Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 This weekend I came to the conclusion that I am jealous of my boyfriend's past relationships - - because he financially supported them. He told me he used to pay for EVERYTHING. One did not even work. He paid off her credit card, paid her insurance, college tuition, EVERYTHING. With me, it is 50/50. Don't get me wrong - I want to be independent. I would never quit my job and let someone else support me. Why does he treat me so different? Why am I thinking these crazy thoughts?
SilentVoice Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Lol ,think about it like this . They are ex's for a reason. Now that he has changed. Hopefully you won't be an ex. No ,but seriously; Seriously?
brainygirl Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 He probably learned from his other relationships. If he otherwise treats you very well and you like him and care for him and enjoy him, don't worry about it. It is also possible that his financial situation could have changed or that he's exaggerating the amount of paying he actually did.
sally4sara Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 This weekend I came to the conclusion that I am jealous of my boyfriend's past relationships - - because he financially supported them. He told me he used to pay for EVERYTHING. One did not even work. He paid off her credit card, paid her insurance, college tuition, EVERYTHING. With me, it is 50/50. Don't get me wrong - I want to be independent. I would never quit my job and let someone else support me. Why does he treat me so different? Why am I thinking these crazy thoughts? So you feel he should make all the same choices in his relationship with you that he made in his past FAILED relationships? Maybe he wants this relationship to actually work and avoids the things that didn't work in the past? Get rid of the imaginary score card you're holding and have YOUR relationship with him.
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