OmegaSol Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 So I went on a first date with a pretty awesome girl. From everything I noticed she had a great time and said she had interest In a second date. I texted her later I had a good time and the next morning she wrote back that she did too. After a bit of small talk through text I said I would call her later to set up a second date. She said she had a few errands and things to do and would let me know when she was free. She never let me know. This is only the day after. Should I still wait... It's only been one date? Should this be a red flag deal breaker? Should I just not be thinking about this so much? Should I try contacting her again after she explicitly knows the ball is in her court to reach out to me?
ReturnToSender Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 You said you would call her...did you? Maybe she meant she had some errands to run right then, but when you call her she will let you know when shes free for a 2nd date. Texts suck for communication, but yeah, you said youd call her and if you havnt, she may well be wondering why...
Author OmegaSol Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 I said I would call her after said "she would let me know when she's finished with everything and free to talk" Soooo ya I said I would call but it was up to her to let me know that she's finishing whatever she's doing because she's busy. I don't know I feel like me opening up the communication again just doesn't sound right. I don't like making multiple calls to Hopefully fit into her convient time scale. If she's equally interested then I'm sure you can shoot over a simple "hey" or something
WTRanger Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I said I would call her after said "she would let me know when she's finished with everything and free to talk" Soooo ya I said I would call but it was up to her to let me know that she's finishing whatever she's doing because she's busy. I don't know I feel like me opening up the communication again just doesn't sound right. I don't like making multiple calls to Hopefully fit into her convient time scale. If she's equally interested then I'm sure you can shoot over a simple "hey" or something Stop assuming and call her! She said she had interest in a second date, so do it already! You know, sometimes people forget by pure accident.
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