theatl Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I'm currently in college. In the past I had hooked up with this girl as a sorta summer fling..year goes by and turns out shes going to the same school as me. I started talking to her more and really started to like her, but she didn't want to hookup anymore because she didn't feel the same way after a few comments I made over the year that she took the wrong way. So I tried my best and acted really nice and eventually this year we hu did everything up to sex. However, she desides she wants to be just friends. I have been really overpretective of her and a bit too controlling in hindsite and thats why she is turned off and doens't want. I have tried to stop but I am like obsessed with her. I'm not one to feel that way, and I really feel something towards her that I haven't felt. We have everything in common and I've been ridiculously nice to her, however we argue a decent amount and get in some fights, but she is the girl I want in the worst way possible. What should I do? I like her to boarderline love her and I realize I have to stop being so controlling and nosey but when I don't talk to her I feel weird and strange and I feel so comfortable with her. She has hooked up with quite of few guys here a long with me and is in sort of an open relationship with a kid back home. I don't know what to do though because I will do anything in the world just to be with her and I really screwed up.It's just been killing me. I've been acting differently and not myself. Literally all I think about is her any free time I have. Do you think the best thing is just to go a week without talking to her, as tough as that may be and hope that she'll realize what she's missing and would rather be with me then not have me in her life at all? Or should I just continue to be nice, not be overbearing, not be controlling, not be obsessive and hope I'll win her back? I really need this to work, I've never felt so strongly about something in my life before, its even pathetic at times.
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