wayne808 Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 OK the run down. I've been married for 5 yrs now, and it seems the wife is a little controlling with what ever I do. For example When ever the wife wants to go out with her friends I have no problem and still if she wants to stay the night at their house I am fine with it. But if i go out to my friends house to drink and if I decide to stay at his house. I would call the wife and she would then complain. If she wants to go shopping I have no complaints for that as well. But if I was to go out and try the same thing but shop for things I like i.e computers parts or even buy a new t.v we really need a new one. She would sit there and refuse to let me have the banks card or something. here in china bank cards can only be in one persons name which it is in her name not mine. how should i handle this. need some serious advice. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
dreamingoftigers Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I would try presenting this to her point-blank. If she doesn't want to listen, inform her that you will be doing more independent things (the staying out all night thing is unacceptable though).
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